So i called this chick that things ended up working out for i got a lot of good advice from u guys thanx and it worked out...and i dunno so i called her drunk at 4am b/c i'm slick like that....not.... we talked for like a min. or 2 then she said something trivial like i'm going for a walk and i was like that's dumb it's 4am ur gonna get hit by a car, then just hungup the phone ...so ehhh.. how to recover from drunk phone calls in general and specifically on this one? I didn't really get her reaction btw b/c i just hungup.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
How to Recover from Drunk phone Calls?
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Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
I would claim to not remember it but say "I think I called you..and I think I was being an ass."
She'll either blow the call off or confirm that.
If che confirms it say:
"Strange things happen when people get drunk. They call people at and say things they probably shouldn't say." Then leave it at that.
Move on as if it never happened. She'll remember it though..DON'T DO IT AGAIN.
She'll either blow the call off or confirm that.
If che confirms it say:
"Strange things happen when people get drunk. They call people at and say things they probably shouldn't say." Then leave it at that.
Move on as if it never happened. She'll remember it though..DON'T DO IT AGAIN.
Damn this is hilarious.
godjwood, don't ever fvcking do that again. Let this be a lesson to you. It's one of the most self-defeating moves you can make if you're really interested in a chick.
I made a drunken phone call back in May and I turned a budding LTR with an HB into a pathetic LJBF exercise in futility
Next time you talk to her just tell what happened, don't apologize, just tell her you feel dumb for doing that and just act like whatever, what's next on the agenda. I'm not on of those people who feels you should not mention it and try to play it off like it never happened. Show her you got the balls to take responsibility for what you did but don't get all sappy sorry on her.
godjwood, don't ever fvcking do that again. Let this be a lesson to you. It's one of the most self-defeating moves you can make if you're really interested in a chick.
I made a drunken phone call back in May and I turned a budding LTR with an HB into a pathetic LJBF exercise in futility
Next time you talk to her just tell what happened, don't apologize, just tell her you feel dumb for doing that and just act like whatever, what's next on the agenda. I'm not on of those people who feels you should not mention it and try to play it off like it never happened. Show her you got the balls to take responsibility for what you did but don't get all sappy sorry on her.
MightyMate
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Say You dont remember that You were on party and maybe phone called itsself. Or that it was loud and You douldnt hear. or that You were really drunk and cant remember but wanted to hear her. All this stuff works. Depends on the situation.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
My best friend of almost 6 years (male) calls me when he's all messed up all the time. He's said some pretty bizarre things, said some incredibly sappy things too. The bottom line is this...if the girl genuinely likes you no amount of drunk dialing is going to change that. If she isn't all that into you, then drunk dialing will just speed up her losing interest in you...which is going to happen if she doesn't much like you anyhow.
A girl who is really into you won't be chased off by your mistakes. Only girls who don't really like you are easily chased off.
A girl who is really into you won't be chased off by your mistakes. Only girls who don't really like you are easily chased off.
laffytaffygirl
Don Juan
That be funny if she told YOu to go for a walk (since you said you weren't too sure of what she said) and you replied with that. Just play it off like you don't remember saying that.
Bible_Belt
Master Don Juan
If the girl asks, act like you thought you were talking to a different girl. "Oh, that was you?"
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
cactus3178
Senior Don Juan
Oh good God.
I almost pissed my pants laughing, bro.
Ah, the old drunk dialing thing. Funny as hell in retrospect.
Don't worry about it.
Seriously, what is it about alcohol that makes things seem like such a good idea at the time?
I almost pissed my pants laughing, bro.
Ah, the old drunk dialing thing. Funny as hell in retrospect.
Don't worry about it.
Seriously, what is it about alcohol that makes things seem like such a good idea at the time?
wheelin&dealin
Master Don Juan
The probability of getting hit by a car at 4am isn't greater then any other time of the day.