how to realize that men don't NEED women

[tarotale]

i read deangelo's stuff... and i realized that you have to CONQUER the INSIDE before conquering the outside. what i mean is, i learned techniques and all that, but never was in real control of my inside.

first thing i ever need to do to conquer my inside... is to realize that i don't NEED women. Enlighten me about this please. i kept trying to think, but
i can't truly realize this.

 

[HungLo]

If you think about it, you seriously don't NEED women instead they are just to have fun with therefore you just DESIRE it. Sure women can play a big thing in your life when your in a relationship with one, however again you don't need it. You should always put the important things first which is education and money or whatever that is important to you. Again women are just one of the things to have fun with but you can do other things that can be fun.

 

[PeeGee]

tarotale, why do you feel you need women? Let's start with that. An hypothesis might be that you surround yourself with women in your life. Meaning that instead of having women around, you have emotionally attached women to aspects of your life.

So when that woman leaves your life, that aspect of your life becomes meaningless or less meaningful.

It's just a guess, but it's the sort of idea I came up with given how little information I was given.

The way I like to put it is: women are the icing on the cake, not the main course. Once you have set up a life for yourself that has nothing to do with women, you have the freedom to pick and choose which women stay in your life or not, and dropping women becomes a matter of not inviting them to enjoy the various aspects of your life.