"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

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This girl I have been talking to for a few weeks now is seeing a movie with another guy. I really don't think he is anything more than a friend, but I am sure he'd like to be. Why else would he take her to a movie. On the other hand, she is definitely a tomboy and doesn't hang with almost any other girls at all, mostly guys. She is a freshman, so most of the guys she hangs out with are my buddys. except for him, lol.

I have met the dude a couple times and he is nice enough. He is definitely timid and submissive around me.

Whenever I see him, I am friendly, but definitely the alpha. I always call him the wrong name, and just generally make him seem beta, but don't come off rude about it.

If she ever brings him up, I just act like he is her gay friend and make jokes along that line.

I think I am fine, but am reallly kinda wondering what approach I should take to busting her balls about it. I don't want to come off jealous or anything like that.

Thoughts?
 

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seems like you are doing good as you are......i'd probably joke "So how was your date with ______?" and maybe she'd be like "it wasnt a date yadda yadda" and disqualify the guy herself
 
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that's what I was thinking, but doesn't that kinda put thoughts of dating him into her head? Or am I just way over thinking it?lol
 

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You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

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