"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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This girl I have been talking to for a few weeks now is seeing a movie with another guy. I really don't think he is anything more than a friend, but I am sure he'd like to be. Why else would he take her to a movie. On the other hand, she is definitely a tomboy and doesn't hang with almost any other girls at all, mostly guys. She is a freshman, so most of the guys she hangs out with are my buddys. except for him, lol.

I have met the dude a couple times and he is nice enough. He is definitely timid and submissive around me.

Whenever I see him, I am friendly, but definitely the alpha. I always call him the wrong name, and just generally make him seem beta, but don't come off rude about it.

If she ever brings him up, I just act like he is her gay friend and make jokes along that line.

I think I am fine, but am reallly kinda wondering what approach I should take to busting her balls about it. I don't want to come off jealous or anything like that.

Thoughts?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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seems like you are doing good as you are......i'd probably joke "So how was your date with ______?" and maybe she'd be like "it wasnt a date yadda yadda" and disqualify the guy herself
 
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that's what I was thinking, but doesn't that kinda put thoughts of dating him into her head? Or am I just way over thinking it?lol
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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