How to react when you bump into ex with her new bf?

[LittleBigOne]

My relationship got down about half year ago.
Now my ex is having a new bf. This guy was after my ex already in the time i was in a relationship with her. In that time she was very critical about him. He was too soft, too nice etc. He was trying to make friends with me, i never really respond on that.
I got really pissed when my ex told me 'it is more than friendship with that guy now'.
How to behave when i bump into them? Just put my ego away and act nice? At the moment i really can't. At the moment i can shoot a hole in their bodies where the little people of Disneyland can walk through.


LittleBigOne

 

[Daddy The Pimp]

LOL

Listen . You should ACT like it doesnt affect you at all .

You should ACT happier than ever .

PERIOD

 

[traffic]

LOL

Listen . You should ACT like it doesnt affect you at all .

You should ACT happier than ever .

PERIOD

Yep totally.

You should be meeting new chicks to forget about that old chick who is now seeing a guy who she thinks is a loser.

You dodged a bullet with her. IMHO.

That ought to make you legitimately happy.

 

[KontrollerX]

You don't have to react to them in any way.

Walk on by.

 

[Dole]

you do the make out opener with your ex
walk up to her, put your arm around her, lean her back a little bit and give her a nice kiss on the lips

 

[LittleBigOne]

you do the make out opener with your ex
walk up to her, put your arm around her, lean her back a little bit and give her a nice kiss on the lips

She is gonna love this one...

I have to mention that i kicked her out of my appartment when she told me about it. AFC? Maybe, i reacted very upset, could not control my emotions.

 

[Aktat]

Avoid them until you cool off a bit, then act like nothing when you meet them, be nice, give an impression that you feel great and have a lot going on. That´s your revenge, being able to have agreat life without her.

 

[Juan_Man]

You definitely need a cooling off period. This is not something that can be easily swallowed by any DJ. Your job now is avoid any situation where you might see the two of them together. When you do see them, just keep walking.

 

[yama600rr]

seem like you still have feelings for this girl! why? forget about her, so what if she's with someone else now, you just happen to know him, so what! you have to move on, she's definitely have!... if you run into them, act like you just ran into a long lost friend, just be friendly, be NORMAL... dont come off as a bitter loser. let her know that youre strong and youre OKAY! that's the only way you will look like a man in her eyes.

 

[Dole]

She is gonna love this one...

I have to mention that i kicked her out of my appartment when she told me about it. AFC? Maybe, i reacted very upset, could not control my emotions.

Try it and report back.
I have done it with girl's before but without her boyfriend being there. It ****'s them up so bad you have no idea.
Works great if you guys are fighting lol

Long story short
Me and this girl went to get some food and talk about things because we have been fighting and we weren't dating anymore. So we started argueing again I just grabbed her by the face while she's yelling at me and i kissed her. I stopped talking and continued watching TV at the lounge. She on the other hand melted inside and started crying. We ended up going to her house and had sex that night. lol

You can pull that off on your ex as well

 

[Sexual]

Here's a good one.
My ex starts dating this guy 4 weeks after we broke up (and I had been the first she'd slept with in nearly 2 years, which I think is bs anyway). Not only did he work with me, but when I quit for a better job because I they refused to give me the position I was next in line for, they gave it to him. To top it off, he looks identical to me except probably 20 lbs heavier, 3 inches taller, and blue eyes.

She even considered to me that I get his ID to use as a fake before we broke up. After all that I thought this was hilarious and kind of felt bad for the guy.

 

[Effington]

The best reaction is to show that you're happy for her. It subtley infers that you are happy / doing better than him.

Doing things like purposely making out with someone in front of her, or ignoring her show insecurity.

 

[PRMoon]

I've always felt like I've out grown my ex's. Like a toy that no longer intrest me or a book I've already read. Not something that's on my mind even a week after we've seperated. Whe I see them, it's like seeing anyother person I knew and I treat them with the respect I'd treat anyone who I'm not enemies with but nor are we on good terms either. I don't go out of my way for anyone and I feel no anxiety/tension when i see someone again despite our situation. Courduality means I'm far to important a person to care about silly things like the pessants or ex girlfriends.

 

[ashman1]

try this ( but only if you can fight ! ) . . . walk up to her, look her new "friend" in the face , smile . look back at her ( still smiling ) and say loudly . . .
" oh, so this is your new ho that you was telling me about ! " and walk away . hilarious ! be prepared to fight though !

 

[ProDJ26]

It hasn't happened to me yet but when I do get into this situation I'm just gonna tell myself, "You must laugh to yourself, the new BF is getting your sloppy seconds...."

For this reason you can walk on by and thus nickname her new Boyfriend

SSM (Sloppy Second Man)

 

[nismo-4]

you do the make out opener with your ex
walk up to her, put your arm around her, lean her back a little bit and give her a nice kiss on the lips

And that's how you get turned into Dole, Dole!

Otherwise, Daddy the Pimp and Traffic had the right answer to this question.

 

[DJDamage]

Listen to Jules.

JULES: Nobody's gonna hurt anybody. We're gonna be like three Fonzies. And what's Fonzie like?

No answer.

JULES: C'mon Yolanda, what's Fonzie like?

YOLANDA: (through tears, unsure) He's cool?

JULES: Correct-amundo! And that's what we're gonna be, we're gonna be cool.

 

[nismo-4]

try this ( but only if you can fight ! ) . . . walk up to her, look her new "friend" in the face , smile . look back at her ( still smiling ) and say loudly . . .
" oh, so this is your new ho that you was telling me about ! " and walk away . hilarious ! be prepared to fight though !

I'd pack a gun if I were you...dudes go crazy over love!