"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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so im in HS and i hang out with these two girls, flirt with some time, fair amount of kino on both lets call them A and B. dont know if they're attracted to me, dont care but wouldnt mind knowing

so basically we were sitting after school and there was this girl lets call her C who i pursued a few months ago. she thinks i am an idiot and C shows up and starts talking about what a fool i am and the others just kinda went along with it

A and B invited me to come over later today and that this one girl, D, who i made out with once (they know about it) is coming too

all i want to know is should i go? and should i be pissed that they just kinda went along with C?
 

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She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

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EDIT: my question relates to whether or not this will hurt/ help my chances with them. its not like i dont have other options, but these two seem pretty cool and id be ok dating either one
 
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Yeah. Don't go. Because uhhh D made out with you and C disrespected you and A and B agreed with C.
 
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right, but should i just let the whole thing go and next them? a lot of people think im dating one of them or that they're interested...
 
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