"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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so im in HS and i hang out with these two girls, flirt with some time, fair amount of kino on both lets call them A and B. dont know if they're attracted to me, dont care but wouldnt mind knowing

so basically we were sitting after school and there was this girl lets call her C who i pursued a few months ago. she thinks i am an idiot and C shows up and starts talking about what a fool i am and the others just kinda went along with it

A and B invited me to come over later today and that this one girl, D, who i made out with once (they know about it) is coming too

all i want to know is should i go? and should i be pissed that they just kinda went along with C?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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EDIT: my question relates to whether or not this will hurt/ help my chances with them. its not like i dont have other options, but these two seem pretty cool and id be ok dating either one
 
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Yeah. Don't go. Because uhhh D made out with you and C disrespected you and A and B agreed with C.
 
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right, but should i just let the whole thing go and next them? a lot of people think im dating one of them or that they're interested...
 
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