"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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How to React to a Girl Who Forgot to Text You Back

Dante420

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Let's say you text a girl. She says she's going something and will text you back when she's done. How does a Don Juan respond to the girl if she forgets to text him back? What do you do? When do you get back to her?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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r0cky

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You DONT react.
When she texts you back in 2 days dont mention anything about how she's 'so forgetful' or how she takes so long to respond.
a dj doesnt give a sh.t that someone forgot to text them back.
Shes most likely waiting to see if you'll text again, because that means you're missing her, which gives her that self esteem boost to drop you and go for the jerk she's been chasing. It wont benefit you at all.
 

daygameguy

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Just give her some space, and try a call sometime later, if she is still not responsive or excited just chuck it.. next her.

I seriously doubt that they ever forget it. Its usually just a casual thing for them cuz they all think they are 10s even if they're not. Just preserve your value levels and have an abundance mindset.

Its not just her loss or your loss if it doesn't work out, its a loss for both of you. Both of you missed out on a good time. But that's just life. Feel valuable, think abundance, and just move on.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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