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How to react on Disrespect..

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Hello Guys,

Whats your take on verbal disrespect, such as the following:

Swearing at you, "Shut up" and stuff like that in arguments.
This happens in arguments, earlier, i just ignored it. Lately i have started trying to be a ***** about it, and demanding an apology, or else i end the conversation.

Whats you take on this?

Remember, i do not date girls that swear in every second sentence; swearing is trashy and only used very LIMITED.

Regards
 

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Any form of disrespect from a girl is a bad sign. It means her interest level is low.

Why are you getting into serious arguments with a girl in the first place? You shouldn't be.

I guess an argument means that you want something that she doesn't want. But if that's the case then you should either live with the fact that she doesn't want it, or simply switch plates. Arguing is just the process of convincing her to do what you want... but that just implies neediness on your part. You shouldn't care enough to argue with her (at least about an issue which is big enough where she feels the need to use swearing).

Anyhow, if she swears at you or calls you a bad name, then firmly tell her not to do that (and make sure to, since taking disrespect lying down will show you are weak). Show you are upset by going NC and going after other girls.
 
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SighSigh, i have actually never looked at the situation like that, that is really great advice, and a great attitude - thank you.

Mauser96, thanks to you too.
 
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