Ive lingered these forums for a while, actually a couple years back i was here alot, and it actually helped me get the girl who has caused the problems. This is my first post however.
I was in a relationship with this chick for a year and a half, we broke up cause she "thought i wasnt trying hard enough" and a week later she was.with a new guy. I was crushed but i moved on in a few months, mainly because i suspect shes a bpdl due to her behavior, her excuse left me wondering "wait a sec, how the hell did i not try hard enough when you were the one being scantless"
She contacts me after a few months and even though i was talking to this girl i started hanging out with my ex more and.more. at first it was just the sex, but i started grtting feelings back. Heres where i need advice, at first she was chasing me for a couple weeks or so, but now shes distant. I suspect she went up north with a mutual friend, and yea there doin the dirty. Now were not dating, but i feel disrespected that she would do that, especially after i asked her what she was doing this weekend and she said idk and told me " i really wanna try to fix things i realize i made a mistake". I have not heard fromher since thursday night.
I kno shes probably riding his pole, am i pissed? Yep. Im not gonna show it tho, and i havnt tried contacting her, but i kno she will contact me when shes back. At this point, do i have a reason to be upset, and when she contacts me should i respond or just keep NC? Effing slvts man. All of them. Its my fault, but she has ruined trust in girls for me.
I was in a relationship with this chick for a year and a half, we broke up cause she "thought i wasnt trying hard enough" and a week later she was.with a new guy. I was crushed but i moved on in a few months, mainly because i suspect shes a bpdl due to her behavior, her excuse left me wondering "wait a sec, how the hell did i not try hard enough when you were the one being scantless"
She contacts me after a few months and even though i was talking to this girl i started hanging out with my ex more and.more. at first it was just the sex, but i started grtting feelings back. Heres where i need advice, at first she was chasing me for a couple weeks or so, but now shes distant. I suspect she went up north with a mutual friend, and yea there doin the dirty. Now were not dating, but i feel disrespected that she would do that, especially after i asked her what she was doing this weekend and she said idk and told me " i really wanna try to fix things i realize i made a mistake". I have not heard fromher since thursday night.
I kno shes probably riding his pole, am i pissed? Yep. Im not gonna show it tho, and i havnt tried contacting her, but i kno she will contact me when shes back. At this point, do i have a reason to be upset, and when she contacts me should i respond or just keep NC? Effing slvts man. All of them. Its my fault, but she has ruined trust in girls for me.
