"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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how to react if your are being rejected

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Jeremymichael

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I was out at the weekend hitting a few bars and having little success. Now the autumn is over and we are hitting winter, I feel my look is fading :) since I have brown/blond hair and green eyes and freckles. Anyway whilst out at the weekend, I noticed my friend was getting more eye contact than me and at the end whilst we were in this club, this girl was talking more to him than me. I'm not that bothered because I have had situations were the opposite was true, but it did get me thinking how you should react to this situation. I am thinking about this imaginary scenario were you go out as a group of friends, thinking you look good and then on talking to a group of girls you get ignored, or possibly insulted?. What would you do?. That is what stops me talking to a group of say giggly girls, all that silly daft twaddle... "your hot", "he's gay?", alternatively you get ignored and left looking like the fool. I guess you just have to make some excuses and say "I'll see you later buddy and make your way home?". Oh and get a huge kebab as comfort food?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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That happens all the time. I go out with one of my friends who played college football, so naturally, all the girls who are into that type of guy talk to him. Meanwhile, all the high end business type girls are after me while ignoring him--neither of us get mad at the other because thats just how life is. Different chics like different guys, thats all.
 
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maybe have an interesting topic of conversation. I mean its that easy. Girls want to talk to the guy that is interesting. So, BE interesting. have you ever sky dived? No. Well its really cool the feeling of adrenaline pumping in you and the high you get. Is there anything that gets your adrenaline pumping? ETC.

Be an interesting person and people will flock to you
 
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