"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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how to react if your are being rejected

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Jeremymichael

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I was out at the weekend hitting a few bars and having little success. Now the autumn is over and we are hitting winter, I feel my look is fading :) since I have brown/blond hair and green eyes and freckles. Anyway whilst out at the weekend, I noticed my friend was getting more eye contact than me and at the end whilst we were in this club, this girl was talking more to him than me. I'm not that bothered because I have had situations were the opposite was true, but it did get me thinking how you should react to this situation. I am thinking about this imaginary scenario were you go out as a group of friends, thinking you look good and then on talking to a group of girls you get ignored, or possibly insulted?. What would you do?. That is what stops me talking to a group of say giggly girls, all that silly daft twaddle... "your hot", "he's gay?", alternatively you get ignored and left looking like the fool. I guess you just have to make some excuses and say "I'll see you later buddy and make your way home?". Oh and get a huge kebab as comfort food?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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That happens all the time. I go out with one of my friends who played college football, so naturally, all the girls who are into that type of guy talk to him. Meanwhile, all the high end business type girls are after me while ignoring him--neither of us get mad at the other because thats just how life is. Different chics like different guys, thats all.
 
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maybe have an interesting topic of conversation. I mean its that easy. Girls want to talk to the guy that is interesting. So, BE interesting. have you ever sky dived? No. Well its really cool the feeling of adrenaline pumping in you and the high you get. Is there anything that gets your adrenaline pumping? ETC.

Be an interesting person and people will flock to you
 
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