"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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How to put down the bottle .. FOR GOOD!

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My background: Now I'm 41. I started drinking at 18. I pretty much drank every night. I would estimate that 75% of nights I didn't remember going to sleep, I was that drunk. I quickly progressed to a pint of whiskey, every night. AT LEAST. I realized I had a problem in my mid 20's. I tried and tried and tried, but I couldn't quit. For 15 FUKKING YEARS!!

Finally, I stumbled across this book:

The Easy Way to Stop Drinking, by Allen Carr.

Their worldwide seminars have a 90% success rate. 90%!!

I read the book several times last summer. The book is one giant MIND FUKK. Since then, no booze. no desire, no willpower, just a shift in thinking. I can sit in a bar surrounded by booze hounds now and not crave a drop in the slightest. I pass by the liquor section of the supermarket now, and look at the bottles like they were jars of anchovy flavored mayonaise or something. NO DESIRE AT ALL.

So if you've got a problem, or think you've got a problem, give the book a try.

Also, if you wanna quit smoking, he (Alan Carr) also has a book out on smoking, which is similarly successful. I wouldn't know since I never smoked.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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