Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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How to put down the bottle .. FOR GOOD!

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My background: Now I'm 41. I started drinking at 18. I pretty much drank every night. I would estimate that 75% of nights I didn't remember going to sleep, I was that drunk. I quickly progressed to a pint of whiskey, every night. AT LEAST. I realized I had a problem in my mid 20's. I tried and tried and tried, but I couldn't quit. For 15 FUKKING YEARS!!

Finally, I stumbled across this book:

The Easy Way to Stop Drinking, by Allen Carr.

Their worldwide seminars have a 90% success rate. 90%!!

I read the book several times last summer. The book is one giant MIND FUKK. Since then, no booze. no desire, no willpower, just a shift in thinking. I can sit in a bar surrounded by booze hounds now and not crave a drop in the slightest. I pass by the liquor section of the supermarket now, and look at the bottles like they were jars of anchovy flavored mayonaise or something. NO DESIRE AT ALL.

So if you've got a problem, or think you've got a problem, give the book a try.

Also, if you wanna quit smoking, he (Alan Carr) also has a book out on smoking, which is similarly successful. I wouldn't know since I never smoked.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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