How to pull off a hot male look?

[Jack Hensy]

When go for the bad boy look. I grow out my goatee, grow out my hair so its long and thick, I life weights to get muscle but I end up looking scary or creepy. Like a big bouncer. Its not handsome or pretty.
When I go for the clean cut look, clean shaven, short hair, trimmed down swimmers build, then I look like a mama's boy. I have a baby face and told I look like jim carrey.
I always get first dates..lots of ONS. (But rarely second dates and relationships)

Muscles just don't look good at me, my face bloats even though I can get a low body fat.

How do you win at the appearance game? I want to be at least a 8.5 stud.

Having a baby face is tough.

 

[glass half full]

I'm using the book "F.U. FAT to slim down, then get muscular. I'm not sure how to get rid of what you're calling babyface. I used to get told I had one too. But I'm 15 years older and now it's gone...I know you don't want to wait that long!!

I'm guessing dropping your bodyfat, and keep a low carb diet might work. Sounds like with the style thing, you need to find a balance between the clean cut and raspy look.
I used to do the raspy look well but it's not really "in".
A lot of it really depends on the look/style that fits your true self. I can't emphasize this enough. Something I too have struggled with. You can't be right for every gal. You need to find your niche and stick to it. I rarely see this said here, but it's important.

 

[Glumix]

Some tricks that work for pretty much everybody :

Confidence is in the eyes. Squinch.
Approachability is in the mouth. Work on your smile.

Work on your jawline. Make it more angular and accentuated. You can do that with a 3 days beard you shave below the jawline when looking straight in the mirror. Don't overdo it though, don't shave too high. It must be clean, not fancy.

Look for Peter Hurley videos on squinch and jawline on YouTube, he's a photographer.

 

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When go for the bad boy look. I grow out my goatee, grow out my hair so its long and thick, I life weights to get muscle but I end up looking scary or creepy. Like a big bouncer. Its not handsome or pretty.
When I go for the clean cut look, clean shaven, short hair, trimmed down swimmers build, then I look like a mama's boy. I have a baby face and told I look like jim carrey.
I always get first dates..lots of ONS. (But rarely second dates and relationships)

Muscles just don't look good at me, my face bloats even though I can get a low body fat.

How do you win at the appearance game? I want to be at least a 8.5 stud.

Having a baby face is tough.

Honestly, mate, I believe looks aren't that big of a factor once you open your mouth and you start speaking the language that helps her want a relationship with you. If you are tired of ons like I was and want to have a woman or women devoted completely to your happiness for as long as you want then..


Read my thread:


"All it takes is two things to make her love you forever"