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Some of you still hold the belief that pulling a dime is more difficult than getting with a 'regular' female. This is a myth. And in this post, I would like to dispel a few of those erroneous beliefs and replace them with the facts.
Top 10's...or dimes as their sometimes called, are no harder to get with than regular females. It takes the same amount of energy to pull a dime as it does to pull a nickel! All it takes is a better understanding into the nature of dimes.
I guess for starters we need a working definition of a 'dime'. My definition of a dime is a female who's cute, has a body like Megan Good, takes great pride in her appearance, has a pleasant attitude, knows and accepts her place as a lady, has a high level of intelligence, is accomplished in her chosen field of endeavor, has a strong spiritual foundation, and has no baggage from previous relationships holding her back.
Looks alone won't cut it for me. If its one thing I found out about females: no matter how good they look to you today, once you're used to her, her looks won't matter to you that much anymore. She's just another female to you then.
Dimes are females who are used to getting lots of attention from men. They know they look good. And because they look good, they get better perks than the average looking female. They get moved up into the VIP sections, bumped ahead in the lines outside of clubs, get treated to more and better dinner dates, get their bills paid for by other men, and often get the better looking guys. A dime is more likely to pull a top notch baller, compared to the average-looking female... who's lucky if she can pull a guy with a decent job.
Dimes are the envy of regular broads. They're hated on for their skin complexion, their natural hair texture, their body shape, and the stylish clothes they wear; often paid for with some guy's credit card. And black dimes have a particularly rough time dealing with the hatred directed at them by other sisters.
Why do you think Beyonce is talked about negatively by so many other black women? They can't stand the fact that Beyonce is cute, she gotta banging body, she's talented, successful...and 9 out of 10 men out there would give a kidney away just to have her for themselves. She's everything an average female can never be or have; primarily because of their envious mindsets. But that's a discussion for another day.
So what's the best way for an average dude to pull a dime?
It's simple: by NOT being average!
That's the secret; that's the key.
Take yourself out of the average zone. If you've been following my blog for any length of time, you should already be in the process of evicting yourself from the land of mediocrity. What I'm striving to do through my writings is strike a fire on the inside of you; one that will burn up any remnants of simp-hood still inside, and leave the field of your soul clean, where real manhood can be established in its place.
When dealing with dimes, you have to go against the grain. Don't be like most guys when they meet or see a beautiful girl. Most guys lose their frigging minds. They start acting differently, going out their way to impress the female, getting up in her face every chance they get. And dudes who have money attempt to impress her with their money. All these are the WRONG things to do.
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I penetrate the hearts of good kids and criminals
Worrisome individuals that live life critical .
The best way to treat a dime is to act as if she's not a dime. Treat her just like an average chick. She gets no special treatment; she gets no favoritism from you. When you see a dime step into a room, let her catch you noting her presence, but don't let her catch you staring. Staring is average. And guys like us are far from average!
Most of what it takes to pull a dime is mental. You have to take dimes off the mental pedestals you've placed them on, and put yourself on that pedestal in her place. Don't look up to females as if their out of your league. No woman is ever out of your league; unless she's lackluster and below the grade. You have to develop the mentality that if anything, she's probably not in your league yet.
Some of you work in environments where there are some really good looking females. And you'll notice that whenever a new chick comes on deck, all the guys in that department go out of their ways to make themselves noticed. Now I don't recommend talking to females you work with on anything other than a casual level. But this is a good place to practice getting the attention of dimes.
You're not going to do what the simps do. You have to make dimes qualify for your attention. If its one thing a dime has grown accustomed to it's attention. They're used to having men ogling and staring holes through them. You're going to do the opposite. Your duty is to require her to qualify for your attention. Your attitude should be:
Just because you look cute or got a nice body doesn't mean I want to get with you. In fact, until you really do or say something to catch my attention, I'll barely even notice you.
Having this mindset works wonders. See, to a chick who's a dime, her looks are her super power. Just like Wolverine has his claws; Spider man has his spidey sense; and Wonder woman has her magic lasso and bullet-proof bracelets: dimes have their good looks. Nothing is more confusing to a superhero than not being able to use their superpower on someone. Suddenly they don't have an advantage anymore. And if a dime's good looks are her advantage, you have to take that advantage away from her. Doing so will throw her into a state of mental confusion.
You have to be like Jabba the Hutt when Luke tried to use his jedi mind powers on him in Return of the Jedi. Jabba basically laughed at him and declared triumphantly:
You're mind tricks don't work on me boy!
And that's the mindset you need to develop in order to be effective at pulling dimes. Don't allow her beauty, or booty to blind you. It's a Jedi mind trick! Don't allow her good looks to throw you off your game. So what if she looks good? So what if she's the cutest thing you ever saw? Guess what? Her dookey still stinks at the end of the day! And so does her breath in the morning time!
You have to remind yourself that she's still just a woman at the end of the day. She didn't descend from Mt. Olympus, riding on a cloud of glory! She's no different from any other female, except in the minds of the average simp.
The best way to pull a dime is to ignore her. I know it sounds counter intuitive; but trust me: it works! I can't tell you how many times I pulled the baddest girl in the room simply by being bold enough to ignore her. While everyone else was sweating her, putting down their best game, I would simply keep to myself and act like she didn't exist; even when I caught her looking at me. And sure enough, it wasn't long before she found her way into my vicinity, and we were talking at an extremely casual level; numbers exchanged and all.
That's enough for now. We'll delve into this more deeply on the next go round. Until then, keep it mackish, not whackish. And for the love of God: stop sweating these females! Position yourself as the one to be chosen, and let them come to you.
Happy Macking!
Top 10's...or dimes as their sometimes called, are no harder to get with than regular females. It takes the same amount of energy to pull a dime as it does to pull a nickel! All it takes is a better understanding into the nature of dimes.
I guess for starters we need a working definition of a 'dime'. My definition of a dime is a female who's cute, has a body like Megan Good, takes great pride in her appearance, has a pleasant attitude, knows and accepts her place as a lady, has a high level of intelligence, is accomplished in her chosen field of endeavor, has a strong spiritual foundation, and has no baggage from previous relationships holding her back.
Looks alone won't cut it for me. If its one thing I found out about females: no matter how good they look to you today, once you're used to her, her looks won't matter to you that much anymore. She's just another female to you then.
Dimes are females who are used to getting lots of attention from men. They know they look good. And because they look good, they get better perks than the average looking female. They get moved up into the VIP sections, bumped ahead in the lines outside of clubs, get treated to more and better dinner dates, get their bills paid for by other men, and often get the better looking guys. A dime is more likely to pull a top notch baller, compared to the average-looking female... who's lucky if she can pull a guy with a decent job.
Dimes are the envy of regular broads. They're hated on for their skin complexion, their natural hair texture, their body shape, and the stylish clothes they wear; often paid for with some guy's credit card. And black dimes have a particularly rough time dealing with the hatred directed at them by other sisters.
Why do you think Beyonce is talked about negatively by so many other black women? They can't stand the fact that Beyonce is cute, she gotta banging body, she's talented, successful...and 9 out of 10 men out there would give a kidney away just to have her for themselves. She's everything an average female can never be or have; primarily because of their envious mindsets. But that's a discussion for another day.
So what's the best way for an average dude to pull a dime?
It's simple: by NOT being average!
That's the secret; that's the key.
Take yourself out of the average zone. If you've been following my blog for any length of time, you should already be in the process of evicting yourself from the land of mediocrity. What I'm striving to do through my writings is strike a fire on the inside of you; one that will burn up any remnants of simp-hood still inside, and leave the field of your soul clean, where real manhood can be established in its place.
When dealing with dimes, you have to go against the grain. Don't be like most guys when they meet or see a beautiful girl. Most guys lose their frigging minds. They start acting differently, going out their way to impress the female, getting up in her face every chance they get. And dudes who have money attempt to impress her with their money. All these are the WRONG things to do.
---
I penetrate the hearts of good kids and criminals
Worrisome individuals that live life critical .
The best way to treat a dime is to act as if she's not a dime. Treat her just like an average chick. She gets no special treatment; she gets no favoritism from you. When you see a dime step into a room, let her catch you noting her presence, but don't let her catch you staring. Staring is average. And guys like us are far from average!
Most of what it takes to pull a dime is mental. You have to take dimes off the mental pedestals you've placed them on, and put yourself on that pedestal in her place. Don't look up to females as if their out of your league. No woman is ever out of your league; unless she's lackluster and below the grade. You have to develop the mentality that if anything, she's probably not in your league yet.
Some of you work in environments where there are some really good looking females. And you'll notice that whenever a new chick comes on deck, all the guys in that department go out of their ways to make themselves noticed. Now I don't recommend talking to females you work with on anything other than a casual level. But this is a good place to practice getting the attention of dimes.
You're not going to do what the simps do. You have to make dimes qualify for your attention. If its one thing a dime has grown accustomed to it's attention. They're used to having men ogling and staring holes through them. You're going to do the opposite. Your duty is to require her to qualify for your attention. Your attitude should be:
Just because you look cute or got a nice body doesn't mean I want to get with you. In fact, until you really do or say something to catch my attention, I'll barely even notice you.
Having this mindset works wonders. See, to a chick who's a dime, her looks are her super power. Just like Wolverine has his claws; Spider man has his spidey sense; and Wonder woman has her magic lasso and bullet-proof bracelets: dimes have their good looks. Nothing is more confusing to a superhero than not being able to use their superpower on someone. Suddenly they don't have an advantage anymore. And if a dime's good looks are her advantage, you have to take that advantage away from her. Doing so will throw her into a state of mental confusion.
You have to be like Jabba the Hutt when Luke tried to use his jedi mind powers on him in Return of the Jedi. Jabba basically laughed at him and declared triumphantly:
You're mind tricks don't work on me boy!
And that's the mindset you need to develop in order to be effective at pulling dimes. Don't allow her beauty, or booty to blind you. It's a Jedi mind trick! Don't allow her good looks to throw you off your game. So what if she looks good? So what if she's the cutest thing you ever saw? Guess what? Her dookey still stinks at the end of the day! And so does her breath in the morning time!
You have to remind yourself that she's still just a woman at the end of the day. She didn't descend from Mt. Olympus, riding on a cloud of glory! She's no different from any other female, except in the minds of the average simp.
The best way to pull a dime is to ignore her. I know it sounds counter intuitive; but trust me: it works! I can't tell you how many times I pulled the baddest girl in the room simply by being bold enough to ignore her. While everyone else was sweating her, putting down their best game, I would simply keep to myself and act like she didn't exist; even when I caught her looking at me. And sure enough, it wasn't long before she found her way into my vicinity, and we were talking at an extremely casual level; numbers exchanged and all.
That's enough for now. We'll delve into this more deeply on the next go round. Until then, keep it mackish, not whackish. And for the love of God: stop sweating these females! Position yourself as the one to be chosen, and let them come to you.
Happy Macking!
