"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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How to PU girls from class? I lost my edge.

solo1

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Anyway it's been 9 months apart that i last was enrolled in any college classes. but im back in action and taking classes this semester. I've changed a lot since then, even with my interactions with women and such.

In the past i'd either talk to specific ones, like ones i'd have oneitis for and go over and talk to them every class. they'd reciprocate the same. Whether or not it was flirtatious, it was a friendly/your cool i like you relationship with the girl.

But this semester, a lot of the girls i've come across in my classes, i'll talk to them for a bit during breaks and such. I dont emit a desperate vibe, not flirtatious. Neither do I emit an "i think your interesting" kind of vibe to them.

One thing is at initial encounter they seem to have high IL, then i fvck up somewhere and their IL just drops...that's what it seems like anyway. so, the next class i see them, and i try to say hi or talk to them...they dont seem interested at all, or dont appear like they want to talk to me.

I admit over the past few months, i've lost my humor edge. And i dont know how to tease women or be playful anymore. I used to be able to at one point, but i cant seem to get it out of me.
I also admit the majority of these girls im not even interested in, for no apparent reason. But regardless of this, i think sparks can be created if they gave me the opportunity.

I feel like a robot this semester. Can anyone point me in the right direction, or at least tell me how you do it in classes?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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kidkoala

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I basically have the same post of the high school section. Help us.
 

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Well I don't know how your convos are going, but I find that cold approaches only work if you make the girl show SOME kind of emotion. Make them giggle a bit, look surprised, even be taken aback by a neg hit! Any of these will trigger the game to "start".
Then when you caused them to feel another emotion other than the standard, "Oh Hi how are you, this is small talk" garbage, and you have them engaged, you'll start to see response.
I think that this is why alot of guys preach using C&F. Because it causes the girls to laugh, and to be a little surprised. It's also why some other use neg hits. It causes them to maybe even be a little shocked, or feel a little twinge of guilt about something.
Personally, I think the message to take from all the tactics is simple: "Make them feel emotion when they are around you, even if you're meeting them for the first time". It doesn't have to be historionics or anything. It just has to be a little emotion. Do that, and the game will start moving, and you can number close.
There are also the other things that you should do which are standard:
Animate you face, look alive.
Smile subtly.
Look into their eyes when you are speaking, as if you are engaged in the conversation. Never look cold.

I think it would help if we all went back and read the section in the "the gunwitch method" about "sexual state".
 
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