How to progress from kissing to sex

[disciple]

Some guys are good at approaching women. Some are good at getting phone numbers. Some are good at conversation and going on a date. Some are good at getting up to kissing and making out. But a true Don Juan knows how to take kissing directly to its inevitable destination and that is sex. If you want to know how to progress from kissing to sex, then what you have to do is turn her on so much that she will have a hungry look in her eye and utter 5 of my favorite words I like to hear from a woman, "Do you have a condom?" What you do is this: Next time your making out, start out with the usual kissing but then allow your mouth to explore her neck, her ears, the top of her breasts (but ignore the nipples and lower part), the inside of her knees, her feet, even her hands. Use your hands to gently but firmly massage her lower back while you kissing her somewhere else. Do the same to her thighs and shins. Do this slowly and sensually like she taste like honey and you want to savor every nibble. Every so often look deeply into her eyes and then go right back doing what your doing. DO NOT touch her nipples, her butt, or her vagina. DO NOT immediately go for sex. Women take longer than men to get sexually aroused so just because your power tool is ready for action doesn't she's quite ready yet. By ignoring the usual parts of her body every other guy goes for, you separate yourself from the rest. Also, the anticipation of what is happening will drive her crazy and if you do this right, more likely than not she will be the first to initiate or suggest sex.

 

[Blake]

I like to hook my finger in her panty strap and run it around letting my fingernail gently scratch her stomach, waistline, and the small of her back. Gets their juices flowing and their kisses intensify.

 

[disciple]

I'm going to have to try that fingernail technique. Sounds interesting.

 

[CyranoDeBergerac]

If you have to ask, you're not kissing her properly.

 

[CyranoDeBergerac]

Originally posted by Blake
I like to hook my finger in her panty strap and run it around letting my fingernail gently scratch her stomach, waistline, and the small of her back. Gets their juices flowing and their kisses intensify.

I've done that before too with a lot of success. I try not to do it any more thought. I'm a foreplay artist and sometimes your fingers slip right onto or into the cooch, which while titilating, constitutes a loss of control. A major hell no.

Besides that, I did this on a girl once when she wasn't quite there yet and when I accidentally pressed on her love button it sent her ASD alarm wailing. She got all self-conscious, shot up and tried to run out on me. Later on that evening she was beggin me to let her give me head, so I turned it around, but it was close.

Since then I've matured and now the reason why I don't incorporate it much is because brusque and surprising are two things I try to avoid using in tandem in my style of foreplay.

-Cyrano

 

[disciple]

What I have written is a good technique to seduce some new pu$$y and get them open. I'm not saying do this all the time. If you do anything all the time it gets boring for her and you. There are times when a woman wants to be caressed and stroked slow and sensual and other times when she wants to be f*cked like a porno star. Plus, it depends on the kind of chick you are f*cking with. This technique is best for the kind of chick you plan on bangin on a regular basis because it makes a good first impression in the bedroom. Once you have a b*tch open off your d*ck, you can pretty much do what you want with that p*ssy. When most hoes are with a guy for the first time, most guys do the same sh*t like they all read the same sex manual. You know: ass, tits, coochie, etc. Don't you think chicks get bored with the same ol sh*t from the same kind of muthaf*ckers. The point is to vary your sh*t so you don't bore b*tches to death and instead give them a thrill that their probably not used to getting. Maybe I'm getting old but I thought setting yourself apart from the AFC's, suckers, losers, and all the b*tch a$$ muthaf*ckers was the essence of what being a Don Juan was about. But I don't know, maybe the game changed and nobody told me. F*ck it.

 

[Myfrdefre]

Thank you for good communication.

 

[FTW]

Thread is elementary.. biggest thing is to not progress too fast.

 

[Myfrdefre]

Thank you for good communication.

 

[Planiryywer]

Thank you for the informative posts.