So, I invited a coworker over on Valentine's Day, but she declined. I had been getting loads of interest from her and thought it would be a good way to get to know her outside of work, but alas, seems like it was a bad move. Whatever. No big deal. But we seem to be flirting with each other harder than ever now. We're constantly teasing each other and giving each other **** while we work. Just the other day she was seeking me out every ten minutes because I wouldn't tell her what I meant by a joke made earlier in the day. It was driving her crazy. Anyway, I'm not sure whether or not to pursue this further.
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
How to proceed.
- Thread starter wurrrwilf
- Start date
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Jair213
Master Don Juan
She probably had something up set with another dude for valentines. I wouldn't ask her out again, make her do that move if she is interested she will.
Hmm. Well, the only reason I invited her in the first place was because she had said she didn't have any plans and that she'd probably end up drinking. I invited her to drink with me instead but she said she didn't want to leave her roommate at home by himself. I realize now my invitation probably wasn't the most enticing offer, considering she still doesn't even know me that well.