How to proceed with girl I'm dating and getting to know her

[bruceartest24]

Met this cute girl on social media and got her number and started texting. We went from texting to dating we been on 5 dates so far. We hold hands, kiss and some light touching on her inner thigh.

We text everyday and she tells me she cares for me and what not. She tells me she is only dating me and wants to continue dating.

Weird thing is she tells me I'm not trying to get to know her. Maybe because our texts are shorts and our more detail conversations are in person. I'm thinking its her guard for not having sex yet.

Any tips on how to "get her know better" ??? How do I proceed.

 

[old_skoolr]

F.uck her

 

[IBreatheSpears]

I'd ignore it and carry on as usual, but try to get her into bed. In future try to do that within 3 dates.

On Wednesday night I had a first date, we went and got drinks and we were supposed to go on some carnival rides in my town but they were closed. We ended up back at mine with rum and coke watching The Big Lebowski. I sat next to her and put my arm around her, rubbing her back and occasionally putting my hand on the back of her head and massaging her scalp through her hair. Then I lay down behind her on the bed and after a couple of minutes she starting spooning me. I started rubbing her leg and gradually slipped my hand into her pants and the rest is history. I'm sure it can be done much more quickly but that's a painless way to initiate. Good luck.

 

[Maximus Rex]

Translation from the Wom*nese

We text everyday and she tells me she cares for me and what not. She tells me she is only dating me and wants to continue dating.

Stop texting her so much. As a matter of only text her to arrange dates, if you continue to do this, she'll start to lose interest in you.

http://www.stoplosingwomen.com/page/14/

Episode 10: Stop Contacting Her Between Dates

http://www.stoplosingwomen.com/page/10/

Episode 49: Stop Letting Her Monopolize ALL Your Time

http://www.stoplosingwomen.com/

Episode 133: ADVANCE GAME – Training Her to NOT Hear Back From You Right Away

Rex has given you a series of podcasts (courtesty of Harry Wilimington,) concerning the issues that you have brought up. I strongly advise you to listen to them, especially the last three.

Weird thing is she tells me I'm not trying to get to know her. Maybe because our texts are shorts and our more detail conversations are in person. I'm thinking its her guard for not having sex yet.

HELL NO AT THE UNDERLINED! As I stated and as Harry explains in the podcast, you need to ween her from hearing from you so much. Give her the gift of missing you. Just check in and make the conversation short.

Any tips on how to "get her know better" ??? How do I proceed.

http://www.stoplosingwomen.com/page/8/


Episode 64: Stop Miscommunicating with Women Part 2 – Learning Her Love Language


http://www.stoplosingwomen.com/page/14/


Episode 13: Stop Asking Her Wussy Questions on Dates

http://www.stoplosingwomen.com/page/6/

Episode 90: Stop Asking Her Safe Questions on Dates


http://www.stoplosingwomen.com/page/2/

127: Knowing Her Love Language to Get the Right Valentine’s Day Gift


First things first, when she says "getting to know her better," she doesn't mean it in a literal sense. Just like when you go on a job interview and the H.R. person says, "So tell me about yourself." The H. R. person doesn't mean it the literally sense. They want you to talk about your skill set and how it's relevant to the position that your applying for.

What she's asking you do is inquire about her romantic interests, take that information and incorporate it into future dates. For example, you're out on a date, you should ask her, "So what do you consider romantic?" She mentions sunsets. You take that information, log it into your memory banks for later use. In the meantime, you're scouting for areas where she can see a cool sunset.

She also wants you inquire about her past relationships? So you should ask things like, what was you're best relationship and why? Again, listen to the information and remember it for later use. That's what this podcast is about, Episode 127: Knowing Her Love Language to Get the Right Valentine’s Day Gift. Even though Harry used it for Valentine's Day, the information is useful year round. Another thing, you've been on five dates, you might want to think about getting to know this woman carnally, before the window of opportunity closes. The Game is cold as the winter time was this year, and it doesn't reward those that hesitant, cautious, or conservative in their game.

 

[bruceartest24]

Stop texting her so much. As a matter of only text her to arrange dates, if you continue to do this, she'll start to lose interest in you.

http://www.stoplosingwomen.com/page/14/

Episode 10: Stop Contacting Her Between Dates

http://www.stoplosingwomen.com/page/10/

Episode 49: Stop Letting Her Monopolize ALL Your Time

http://www.stoplosingwomen.com/

Episode 133: ADVANCE GAME – Training Her to NOT Hear Back From You Right Away

Rex has given you a series of podcasts (courtesty of Harry Wilimington,) concerning the issues that you have brought up. I strongly advise you to listen to them, especially the last three.



HELL NO AT THE UNDERLINED! As I stated and as Harry explains in the podcast, you need to ween her from hearing from you so much. Give her the gift of missing you. Just check in and make the conversation short.



http://www.stoplosingwomen.com/page/8/


Episode 64: Stop Miscommunicating with Women Part 2 – Learning Her Love Language


http://www.stoplosingwomen.com/page/14/


Episode 13: Stop Asking Her Wussy Questions on Dates

http://www.stoplosingwomen.com/page/6/

Episode 90: Stop Asking Her Safe Questions on Dates


http://www.stoplosingwomen.com/page/2/

127: Knowing Her Love Language to Get the Right Valentine’s Day Gift


First things first, when she says "getting to know her better," she doesn't mean it in a literal sense. Just like when you go on a job interview and the H.R. person says, "So tell me about yourself." The H. R. person doesn't mean it the literally sense. They want you to talk about your skill set and how it's relevant to the position that your applying for.

What she's asking you do is inquire about her romantic interests, take that information and incorporate it into future dates. For example, you're out on a date, you should ask her, "So what do you consider romantic?" She mentions sunsets. You take that information, log it into your memory banks for later use. In the meantime, you're scouting for areas where she can see a cool sunset.

She also wants you inquire about her past relationships? So you should ask things like, what was you're best relationship and why? Again, listen to the information and remember it for later use. That's what this podcast is about, Episode 127: Knowing Her Love Language to Get the Right Valentine’s Day Gift. Even though Harry used it for Valentine's Day, the information is useful year round. Another thing, you've been on five dates, you might want to think about getting to know this woman carnally, before the window of opportunity closes. The Game is cold as the winter time was this year, and it doesn't reward those that hesitant, cautious, or conservative in their game.

Really appreciate that and it very helpful. Problem is she always texting me I'm not the one who starts the text. I try to keep it short and sometime she mimics me.

She once said she's afraid to fall for me and whispers how she cares for me in my ear.

 

[Maximus Rex]

Start Reducing Contact

Really appreciate that and it very helpful. Problem is she always texting me I'm not the one who starts the text. I try to keep it short and sometime she mimics me.

http://www.stoplosingwomen.com/page/5/

Episode 96: Stop Being Afraid She’ll Forget You

Listen potna, (and I'm telling you this from experience,) the more you talk to her, the more you're decreasing her interest in you. Rex will use himself in this unfortunate example to illustrate this point.

There's this chick I have effed up and developed a serious crush on. On Tuesday, I was at my old school conducting some business for one of the Club I was in while I was there.

I'm hanging out with "T.H.Y.C.E.A.C.," (the chick that I have crush on,) when she gets a phone call from the dude, SHE HAS A CRUSH ON! Dude, I tell you, I've NEVER seen a woman be so excited to get call from a somebody in my life. The smile on her face, the look on in her eyes. The JOY in voice as she spoke to him. She was acting like she was on the phone with Channing Tatum. Of course, this totally destroyed my mood, but forgive my digression.

My point is (as I stated earlier,) you need to give this chick the "gift of missing you." You need to gradually reduce your contact with this chick to once a day, with occasionally missing a day of contact. Like with "T.H.Y.C.E.A.C.," and the dude she was so excited to hear from, you need to have the same effect on this chick. Hearing from you needs to be a mini event for her and the high point of her day. Also, stop responding to every text, this is implying that you have nothing going on in your life and you're willing to stop whatever it is you're doing to speak to her. This needs to stop because you're setting a VERY BAD PRECEDENT! She's not a medical patient and you're definitely not a doctor on call, if she wants to know you're not returning her text, tell her you're something, (which you should be doing something anyway,) if you're not doing something, lie.

Though it may not seem like it, you're gradually losing control of this relationship, you need to maintain the power. You do this be having stuff going on in your life other than her and by letting her fiend for your attention some what. Believe me, you'll be glad that you did.

She once said she's afraid to fall for me and whispers how she cares for me in my ear.

That's sweet.

http://www.stoplosingwomen.com/slw0032/

Episode 32: Stop Chasing Her-Let HER CHASE YOU

Also, you're one of the few people on this broad that is doing stuff right, so why don't give a field report on what you're doing with the chick, why she's texting you all day, why she's falling for you, how you got her to say that she "cares for you.

 

[Epimanes]

Have you read ANY of pooks threads?

If not... Get your azz in gear and read them!

Do you ask her about herself? If not, when your talking in person ask open ended questions. Then as she speaks pick things in between what she says to keep the conversation going. Use key words. Listen to her. Its actually pretty frcken easy to keep a woman talking and build rapport by listening to trigger words SHE brings up.

Epi