kickureface
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how do you do it?
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
how to prevent relationships from getting boring
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
nubian-knight
Don Juan
time apart, change of scenary
redspicyflag
Master Don Juan
Do random sh!t
Go hit on other girls
ya know
Go hit on other girls
ya know
ready123
Master Don Juan
don't take each other for granted
MooseGod
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Well said. I've come to the conclusion that a healthy relationship is actually a lot like 50 First Dates. You actually have to make her fall in love with you on a daily basis (well, not quite, but I think you get the gist of it.)ready123 said:don't take each other for granted
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
kickureface
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good stuff here, but can you guys elaborate more?
Social Calibration
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Do adventurous things, wrestle, scare her, play jokes on her, anything to make both of you laugh.
Do something different time to time, go to the gym together, blockbuster nights at home, just do it all. If you two are always having a good time together the spark between you two will never die out.
Do something different time to time, go to the gym together, blockbuster nights at home, just do it all. If you two are always having a good time together the spark between you two will never die out.