How to play this?

[xupc]

During my LTR ( I am single now) I had a fling with a chick for a month or two. And suddenly I got bored and went NC with her for almost a year.

A few hours ago I talked to her on FB and I invite her to my birthday party. She agreed to come, but she also mentioned that she would like to know why I went NC.

I am planning on telling her more or less the truth.. or well.. part of the truth.. That I was busy with my work, and had to travel (I traveled all over the place, I went EU to US two times), and that I had serious family medical problems. I do not plan on telling her that that I was in an LTR at the time and that I was bored with her.

Also, I am thinking that it would be better for us to dance, and have a few drinks and bit of kino before taking her into my room to discuss . I am also planning to arrange a date with her for drinks or something.

What do you guys think?

 

[Willard]

All you have to tell her is that you were busy with your work and traveling. I had the same situation a while back. After my LTR ended I texted her and she asked the same thing, she was happy to hear that. You might want to leave out the family medical problems. Good luck!

 

[Desdinova]

If she's not your gf, she doesn't have to be entitled to know. Just tell her that life got busy.

 

[xupc]

Thanks a lot guys. I don't plan on giving her any details etc. I will say I was busy but if she pressure me I will just say that I was busy with work, traveled a lot, and had to relocate for a few months to do some work for a client. Will see how things will play out.