"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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During my LTR ( I am single now) I had a fling with a chick for a month or two. And suddenly I got bored and went NC with her for almost a year.

A few hours ago I talked to her on FB and I invite her to my birthday party. She agreed to come, but she also mentioned that she would like to know why I went NC.

I am planning on telling her more or less the truth.. or well.. part of the truth.. That I was busy with my work, and had to travel (I traveled all over the place, I went EU to US two times), and that I had serious family medical problems. I do not plan on telling her that that I was in an LTR at the time and that I was bored with her.

Also, I am thinking that it would be better for us to dance, and have a few drinks and bit of kino before taking her into my room to discuss ;). I am also planning to arrange a date with her for drinks or something.

What do you guys think?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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All you have to tell her is that you were busy with your work and traveling. I had the same situation a while back. After my LTR ended I texted her and she asked the same thing, she was happy to hear that. You might want to leave out the family medical problems. Good luck!
 
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Thanks a lot guys. I don't plan on giving her any details etc. I will say I was busy but if she pressure me I will just say that I was busy with work, traveled a lot, and had to relocate for a few months to do some work for a client. Will see how things will play out.
 
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