How to play this - very tricky...

[TheGambino]

So I know this chick from mid school 10 years ago. She has mutual friends and I was a real afc with one of her best friends years ago. Her friends are mid school friends from me that know me very well.
I actually went for drinks with this girl's friend a couple of weeks ago who I had oneitis for 7 years ago but that really disappeared when I started to work on myself, getting on dates and forgetting about her. A couple of years later I came on this forum and I learned about the DJ principles and totally got rid of her in my mind but now we go for drinks just to have fun, shes in a ltr.

Anyway HER friend is pretty hot, I know who she is but we never talked too long, I dont know her that well and she doesn't know me but she heared a lot about me, you can imagine.

I know that she likes a guys like me and her friends actually really like me, they are old friends.

The oneitis friendzone girl (her friend) told me that she is looking for love(before I asked her out on messenger ofcourse) and that she goes out on dates, really like the guy but that they use her for cex and that she ends up crying at her friends that they pump and dump her. But she is not low value, shes educated, works out everyday, has a LOT of friends in the city and is actually really popular. But ofcourse she WILL tell our mutual friends about what I do with her and if I would make a move, keep that in mind (I dont care though).

Hit her up on Facebook to help me with a Herblife interview, doing a ''fitcheck''. Ask questions about her work out schedule, what she does and what she eats. I try to find costumers and its really easy to meet up with chicks this way. Last time I had a appointment with a girl I made a thread about and it ended in s3x.

I hit her up on facebook messenger and she answeres immediatley that she is up for it and asks questions about it.

After some chat on messenger about an appointment we are set for a day this week at 8. She isnt sure about driving to my city so she invites me to her house instead. I agreed to go to her.

Ofcourse im going to do a fitcheck with her (I do herbalife to stay in shape and work on myself and eventually earn money by selling products, but I got a job so I dont really need the income, Im there to f8ck her obviousley).

Any tips how to play this at her place? Do the interview then flirt? Sit on her couch ask her to sit next to me and kino? I would like to hear all the suggestions bro's!

Move forward! Thanks

 

[Julian]

just follow the formula..do the interview...lace it with some seduction/humor...then eventually make a move. read her body language. obviously u gonna be able to tell. honestly from what her friend says...she sounds like a dumb slut constantly letting guys use her. so this should b easy.

 

[Sho-No-Luv]

What did you do at the last one? Same thing man same thing. ^ Yea, she's a slut so bang away. Easy pickens this one.

 

[ThePasses]

Well you make it sound like you've gotten ass at least a few times through these 'Fitchecks' so you should know what to do for the most part. Do what you normally do and tailor a thing or two as you gauge her responses and personality. You might get some type of action that day seeing as there's mutual friends and she knows you a little bit. If you wanna be extra sure before going in for the kill, for whatever reason, then just do your normal presentation and then tell her that the next time she's in your city visiting mutual friends to let you know so you can give her some free supplement samples, all the while not giving any indication that you're attracted to her. After that get an update from the OneItis, mutual friend girl about whether she's diggin you or not.

Also...Whatever you do though, do not give her the amount of attention that you gave the last girl you posted about (the one with the boyfriend that you carpooled with to Herbalife meetings) because with this one being relationship hungry and you two knowing the same people it might turn into a headache if she develops feelings and you hit it and leave her alone like you plan to. <----Helluva run-on sentence, eh?

 

[TheGambino]

UPDATE Field Rapport with this broad. (I need to keep my frame, read this!)

So I went over, she was taking a shower when I arrived.

She remembers me as an big AFC, chubby kid that got along very well with her friends in a NON DJ'ish way so I changed in a positive way in her eyes.
We had long chats about vacation and I started to set the tone with coming on subjects like ''morning s3x'' and staying in bed after s3x and stuff, she loved the talk and I could see in her eyes that she was surprised. I was an AFC with her best friend like I told you guys. We had a convo in the backyard where I told her that I lived together with a chick and she acted like this.

Her: You!? with a gf for 9 monhts, wow!

I was applying, faking warmth, commenting that it's easy to hook up with beautiful girls but that quality character is hard to find. Looking long in her eyes and smiling a lot, being very positive about everything, listening a lot to her, talking about fun and light stuff and go on and on. Everything a real DJ does.

I had some alcoholic drinks, she didn't, she wanted to stay sober.

After a while I did the fitcheck I was coming for and we talked about that for a while.

Then 3 hours!? I was feeling that I lacked attraction building, she was on the other side of the couch so I couldn't kino and it was getting late, she was clearly less intoo it because there wasn't a hard sexual, attracting vibe, we were just having fun talking. She was doing 80% of the talking ofcourse and I told some stuff about myself. But her friends know me very, very well and she knows me too because we were in the same class in mid school.

Anyway she told me ''you changed so much'' ''you look good'' ''you changed in character too''. I was replying vague to that.

I told her to show me vacation pictures on her laptop so that I could sit next to her. Went to sit next to her, ofcourse those pictures were fun but my real goal was making out. So I started to touch her a little bit and even holded her hand commenting that they were small (neg hitting).

Then I said to myself (Ok Gambino, tell her you saw enough of her vacation pictures and make a move)
I was telling myself that the whole time until she shuts down her laptop talks some more and I go in for the kiss after looking in her eyes for a bit. She acts surprised and gives me the cheek.

(keep your frame guys, it doesn't mean sh1t)

So she tells me. Wow that's awkward, I can't do that, she was clearly attracted but couldn't forget how I was years ago. I have a new good vibe now that I didn't have years ago how she remembers me and she keeps saying we can't kiss. I tell her that she misses out, that Im a great kisser and that I see a lot in her and want to find out how she is in bed, how she kisses and I keep sniffing her neck and trying to get her wet.

After 10 mins or longer she kinda wants to kiss but no s3x. I go for the kiss again, again the cheek, third time she kisses back and yes were set.

We kiss hard, soft, and ofcourse I make her wet and she is all over me. We make out for hours, she sits on top of me and I go in her for a couple of seconds but she witholds s3x. We go to her bed and she witholds s3x.

I go down on her, I finger her until she comes and she's all shaky and loves it but she refuses to blow me or f8ck me.

I know this from her friend. She got hurt in the past, guys pump and dump.

I told her. I think you got hurt and she starts to cry (only tears). (girls are masters in this, don't fall for the trap -.-)

I kiss give her my shoulder where she lays her head on and kino her.
We kiss for a long time in bed and I try to have s3x, making her wet, comforting her that it stays between us and go on and on.

End result.

She is shocked that she actually had a sexual experience with me, she loved it but she is afraid to get hurt again. I dont know what is going to happen in the future.

I won't make the same mistake as with my last broad, I won't fall for the trap and keep my frame. No texting, no calling, I let her initiate.

Any tips tell me and guys it is possible to get out the friendzone, Im the proof!

 

[Julian]

nice work G, keep it up..what i would do next is take her to a simple and nice dinner date then seal the deal. and by that i mean shes bringing over chipotle then getting banged out