"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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How to play this....If to play it at all

bunjy

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Hey people, as some of you may know very recently I was having problems with one chick who was bascially an AW. She was giving me the run around, flaking repeatedly and generally being a pain.

Anway, after nexting her and moving on guess what......she contacted me again (7 days after last contact).

Now heres the thing, obviously Ive been gaming other chicks and had lost all interest in this AW. But now shes txting me saying she wants to go out on Monday night (bascially shes asking me on a date). What do you lot reckon I should do??? Not bother?? Go meet her?? I told her maybe cos im pretty busy then (which I am).

Im not really interested in her anymore but she is a stunner and cant help but feel that by not meeting her I would pass up an opportunity to get some fine P***y.

If I do go and meet her how should I play it?? Because my interest is almost non existent Im largely indifferent towards her so not sure how to play it, I would more than likley come accross as uninterested (which I am really).

Its true what they say though isnt it, ignore a woman or act like you dont care what happens and sure as hell they come running to you.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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jophil28

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bunjy said:
Hey people, as some of you may know very recently I was having problems with one chick who was bascially an AW. She was giving me the run around, flaking repeatedly and generally being a pain.

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Do whatever, but remember that this is the same AW who "gave you the runaround and was flaking repeatedly..."
Why go back for more of the same ?
 

LinkinParkROX

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I'd say flake on her and don't go. There are plenty of chances for some fine pussy elsewhere, so passing this up is no big deal. There can be two possible outcomes to this. One being that she won't mind and just do something else, another being she'll beg you and keep asking, feeding your Don Juan ego even more. :p Either way, you've got nothing to lose. :)
 

bunjy

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jophil28 said:
Do whatever, but remember that this is the same AW who "gave you the runaround and was flaking repeatedly..."
Why go back for more of the same ?
Yeah thats pretty much the way im thinking to be honest. However, I feel in a way Ive got nothing to lose. If she flakes or started any nonsense again I wouldnt actually be bothered/interested as im indifferent towards her anyway, in short, shes gonna have to do the chasing if she wants any sort of a chance with me because as I said Ive moved on. On the other hand this could be a opportunity to nail her.

Shes not the sort of girl id wanna even date and have any sort of genuine relationship with so in a way whatever happens I cant really lose, im also currently gaming two other girls with an eye on a third. Its going well without the AW being in the picture.
 

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Refer to the many 'revenge' threads -- you have better things to do than to focus your energies toward somebody who isn't worth your time, money, and effort.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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