"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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How to play this....If to play it at all

bunjy

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Hey people, as some of you may know very recently I was having problems with one chick who was bascially an AW. She was giving me the run around, flaking repeatedly and generally being a pain.

Anway, after nexting her and moving on guess what......she contacted me again (7 days after last contact).

Now heres the thing, obviously Ive been gaming other chicks and had lost all interest in this AW. But now shes txting me saying she wants to go out on Monday night (bascially shes asking me on a date). What do you lot reckon I should do??? Not bother?? Go meet her?? I told her maybe cos im pretty busy then (which I am).

Im not really interested in her anymore but she is a stunner and cant help but feel that by not meeting her I would pass up an opportunity to get some fine P***y.

If I do go and meet her how should I play it?? Because my interest is almost non existent Im largely indifferent towards her so not sure how to play it, I would more than likley come accross as uninterested (which I am really).

Its true what they say though isnt it, ignore a woman or act like you dont care what happens and sure as hell they come running to you.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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jophil28

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bunjy said:
Hey people, as some of you may know very recently I was having problems with one chick who was bascially an AW. She was giving me the run around, flaking repeatedly and generally being a pain.

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Do whatever, but remember that this is the same AW who "gave you the runaround and was flaking repeatedly..."
Why go back for more of the same ?
 

LinkinParkROX

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I'd say flake on her and don't go. There are plenty of chances for some fine pussy elsewhere, so passing this up is no big deal. There can be two possible outcomes to this. One being that she won't mind and just do something else, another being she'll beg you and keep asking, feeding your Don Juan ego even more. :p Either way, you've got nothing to lose. :)
 

bunjy

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jophil28 said:
Do whatever, but remember that this is the same AW who "gave you the runaround and was flaking repeatedly..."
Why go back for more of the same ?
Yeah thats pretty much the way im thinking to be honest. However, I feel in a way Ive got nothing to lose. If she flakes or started any nonsense again I wouldnt actually be bothered/interested as im indifferent towards her anyway, in short, shes gonna have to do the chasing if she wants any sort of a chance with me because as I said Ive moved on. On the other hand this could be a opportunity to nail her.

Shes not the sort of girl id wanna even date and have any sort of genuine relationship with so in a way whatever happens I cant really lose, im also currently gaming two other girls with an eye on a third. Its going well without the AW being in the picture.
 

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Refer to the many 'revenge' threads -- you have better things to do than to focus your energies toward somebody who isn't worth your time, money, and effort.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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