"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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How To Pick Up Women Lesson 1

ALPHAROMEO

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THE ONLY WAY TO GET SOME ACTION WITH WOMEN IS TO FORCE YOURSELF to GO OUT TWICE A WEEK ON THE SAME DAYS AT THE SAME TIMES ( street approach or supermarket approach )
if not , you ll be content to stay at home , you won t get any results ( re cognituive psychology ZIG ZIGLAR S on selling page 45 )

ZIG started having results the moment he decided to COERCE himself to the above discipline ! his sales STARTED to rocket

sarging is in a lot of ways very similar to selling

INTERESTED IN MY NEW BOOK BY THE WAY? THE NON NONSENSE WAY TP PICK UP WOMEN


lesson 2 WHAT TO SAY TO THE FEMALE

lesson 3 HOW TO GET HER DIGITS

LESSON 4 THE TELEPHONE CALL

LESSON 5 HOW TO CONVERSE WITH YOUR DATE

LESSON 6 WHEN TO MAKE OUT WITH HER
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Olivia

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Good luck forcing yourself. We will see how long can you go forcing.
 

TheCWord

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STOP YELLING.

And stop talking about dating like it's a telemarketing scam.
 

dutchmaster

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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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SamTheHobit

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I'm neutral on the matter
 
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