"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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How to pick up girls in clubs?

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This will be my first quote, but i don't care. My first language isnt english. But i hope you understand what i mean.

How to pick up girls in clubs? I think it is hard to pick up girls in clubs. But anyone dont know where am i. Meybe other places are different. Meybe you meet a girl in clubs it is so easy to bring your home.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Chamber36

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First of all you have to look for girls that are receptive towards you. Finding a good target is half the work. It's hard to create attraction where there is none. If there is attraction from the start this will make talking to them much easier. Touch them as much as you can. If she is ignoring you, ignore her back. DHV by showing that you are pre-selected by other women. Just talking to a 9 will automatically get all the sub-9 women interested in you. Don't buy them any drinks. Make bold statements. Be sexual. Let them know you want them. Keep in mind though, you don't need them. Never supplicate to a woman. Always retain your dignity, so don't beg. Don't get too drunk. Be friendly, but tease them as well. Make them laugh, let them feel comfortable. If you have trouble talking to women remember that they love talking about themselves. You just have to come from a frame of screening them. You want to know if she is suitable for you.
 

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Women can be hard to understand. In fact, how many eBooks have you bought that taught you how to understand women at a psychological level? Did they work? Well you are reading this, right? That’s why I recommend a product that can skip the psychological approach and teach you some proven ‘magic tricks’ to teach you how to attract women to you quickly wherever you are.

Are you saying, “Yes! A magic trick! I’ve always wanted to magically attract women to me.” Then you are going to love what I am going to talk about.
Check the P.U.M.A skills- they are great and if practice a great way to pick up women in bars and clubs.
 

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picking up women at clubs is a completely different beast then picking up women during the day.

At night, the energy is high and things are moving fast. That's why women will always give you a way quicker rejection in the evening then during the day...they are out to get wild and be adventurous, but only with men that are on their level.

When you go to approach at a night club, don't wait for eye contact, just go into any set with high energy and intent. Be sure to project your voice as loudly as possible so they don't have to keep asking "WHAT?" It gets really annoying, fast, for both parties and really bad for maintaining the conversation.

What you say isn't really the point because they will miss half the stuff that comes out of your mouth anyway. Just go in and convey your intent through body language. If you are a beginner, expect to get turned down. A lot. But don't let that deter you. You need to be able to become impervious to rejection to see real progress.

Night game is really a numbers game. If you want a greater rate of success, try out the mystery method. But keep in mind no amount of canned lines and routines will help you if you aren't used to conversing first.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Depends on what kind first clubs I went to were kinda ghetto mix black/hispanic I just met my group of friends I just started going to clubs practically ran out to the dance floor closed my eyes did lil crip walk. Went up behind random black girls. Managed to get one in my car and told her shes going home with me. (my new friends officially hated me)(still don't think they've pulled from a club. Think she was my gf /fb idk?!)

But then I was just the DD. I would ****ing dance everybody with even real tall *****es.

Eventually I started drinking also and noticed less girls would dance with me if I wreak of old crow & hard liquor lol! In fact it dropped off to nil eventually.

It turned around me friend who started researching **** and saying canned lines like I was gonna wear that same outfit started pulling the makeouts/kiss closes. When he approaches now hes real upbeat and jolly saying things in a jokingly manner is hard to pull off..
 
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I have more success at bars than clubs. Truthfully, it all comes down to how attractive you are. If both of you smile and maintain good eye contact, approach her. Introduce yourself and ask her if she wants to join for a drink at the bar. Escalate.

If she is with a group of friends, approach and engage the entire group. Then tell them you are getting a drink and ask the girl if she wants to join you at the bar.

Do not go for the number close, go for the take her home because she will lose interest in your 90% of the time after.
 

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Chamber36 said:
First of all you have to look for girls that are receptive towards you. Finding a good target is half the work. It's hard to create attraction where there is none. If there is attraction from the start this will make talking to them much easier. Touch them as much as you can. If she is ignoring you, ignore her back. DHV by showing that you are pre-selected by other women. Just talking to a 9 will automatically get all the sub-9 women interested in you. Don't buy them any drinks. Make bold statements. Be sexual. Let them know you want them. Keep in mind though, you don't need them. Never supplicate to a woman. Always retain your dignity, so don't beg. Don't get too drunk. Be friendly, but tease them as well. Make them laugh, let them feel comfortable. If you have trouble talking to women remember that they love talking about themselves. You just have to come from a frame of screening them. You want to know if she is suitable for you.
Chambers pretty much nailed it.

Spreading reps +1..

-Scars
 
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