"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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How to pick up a girl in a drive threw

Livinlifehard

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Well me and 2 friends just got done from MMA training and took a shower dressed up decent. I was feeling tough... so at jack in the box we pull up to the window and a HB 7 comes up and whatever. She goes after drinks to get food and my friend started saying "your a ***** if you dont talk to her (which is actually good modivation to me), you should ask her to **** out of the blue" i said "nahhh but i have a good line kinda like that" he said "dude i will laugh so hard, you better do it" she comes back with food.

hands food to us
Me: hey i have a question
her: huh?
Me: do you have a Boy friend because i really want to make out with you?"
(Said it will a stone cold face even though my friends were probley laughing)
her: (stunned) huh? well that was random
Me: i like to be spontainous
her: right now?
me: Nahhh give me your phone number
her:well oh **** i am moving here let me get yours
me: ok (i cant belive she actually went for it... i dont care if she calls me it was still funny)
her: Ya i am going to call you, your really ****ing hot
me: (chuckle) thanks
(she said something other bull**** not paying attention; and made sure that i remembered her name by repeating it over and over)
Her:eek:k this is my name (forgot) dont forget it ok? i am going to call you
Me: i couldnt forget someone like you... ttyl

It was so funny, i was already pumped after training and actually pulling that off got me even more pumped. I honastly dont care if she calls me or not, if she does i know where its going to lead to. My friends laughed the whole way home calling me a pimp, and i was just suprised she didnt get mad about being that blunt... i think my balls just grew a little lol.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Charm

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The ball is in her court to call you. Your pickup was bold but perhaps you could have done something so you had her number?
 

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i am not going to do it constantly, i just did it as a joke and it worked. She said she was moving so she didnt have a phone yet... she said i looked like her friends ex (dont know what that means)... mabe i can get her and her friend. If she calls great... if not... oh well.
 

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Sounds like you stroked her ego and she liked it.
 

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because man i just thought it was a experiance where if you say something bold and outragious that it might work... not to be scared of talking to women. I have seen it work before... but i havent tried it so i wanted to try as a joke and it worked. She seemed happy and i wouldnt be suprised if i get a call back but the fact is that to be spontanious sometimes.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Charm

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You had fun and a good laugh. It probably isn't a game winning strategy though and definetely isnt' a true "How to " as the title of this thread implies since you really didn't pick her up.
 

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But hot damn that's a bonus point for boldness.

Cheers.
 

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This thread lost points from the start with its title. A drive threw? lmao.

But yea, kudos for... whatever you call that. Sounds like it was funny.
 

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Ace of Flames said:
This thread lost points from the start with its title. A drive threw? lmao.

But yea, kudos for... whatever you call that. Sounds like it was funny.
I was waiting for someone to remark on that... i know its thru... and i actually wish i had posted it in the disscussion forum.
 

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I don't know if it's a damned Canadian thing, but sometimes it's called a Drive-Though here.

But, generating rapport is the biggest tool you have to catching cashiers, store-people and the like. If you're a frequent customer, and you take the time to flirt/bug/tease/talk with her, and you aren't an expected customer, she'll be ANTICIPATING when you are coming in next. Why? Because I nipped into a resturant here a couple days ago, and the chick in the back was telling me she has one chicken leg left, and I can have it for free, so I got a free leg, and a box of taters, and I asked her where the other girl that worked cash a lot was (because I'm a tool for names), and now she thinks I like her.

The bonus here is that now they will 'talk' about me, because I got a rela good read on ChickenLegHB, and she seems to like me...and the cashier, probably. Point is that every time I come in, I generate more RAPPORT, and now, they are THINKING/ANTICIPATING when I will come in next. And that leads to a close, possibly two dates out of that, I can do a little contest to see which girl is more attracted to me, take them each out on a date and drive them nuts. I don't know yet :D
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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So, has she called you back? I'm guessing she won't for the simple fact that if a girl won't give you her number, then 99 out of a hundred times, that means she is not interested.
 

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I am not saying that i know a lot about girls but she seemed interested... she said i had a out of state area code, so she would have to buy a phone card. So probley not... or she will when she is in heat.
 

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Well the important thing is not whether she will call or not, but that you took a risk. Next time you won't hesitate as much, and perhaps it'll be a situation that's more conducive to success. Good luck.

If you do bonk her, we want to see the footage on YouTube. Nothing less! :)
 
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