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Article on how to perform the Bent-Over Barbell Row, video is included.
Bent-Over Barbell Row
Comments are welcome.
Bent-Over Barbell Row
Comments are welcome.
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Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
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You don't need to pause on the Bent-over Barbell Row.Deus ex Pianoforte said:Wow, pausing is gonna make it a lot harder. The main thing I have trouble with when I do bent-overs is my lower back. I can't tell the difference between "stress" and "discomfort". Same when I do deadlifts or back extensions.
7 pullups with 60lbs weight is strong. Keep going. Your BOR is pretty weak compared to your other lifts. I've deadlifted 350lbs for 1RM with a BOR of 200lbs for 1RM.spesmilitis said:Awesome, just what I'm looking for. Some questions comments:
I can do 7 pull ups with 60 extra lbs of weight. I can deadlift 290x5. But I can only BOR 115x7. Which variation of BOR's should I work on? Wide grip? Under hand? ect.
Many people say that sloppy BOR's are ok. They say that a little bit of body english won't hinder gains in the BOR. Also, what do you think about dynamic rows. http://youtube.com/watch?v=QvyHyDnh9U8
From the video, it seems that the bar never touches your stomach, you stop when your eblows are slightly above your back.
Is not having your torso parralell really that bad? I thought torse angle are just a variation in the BOR, and that most angles will produce results.
What to you think of t-bar rows as a substitude. What about as a supplemental exercise?
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I beat both of those and still can't pullup for crap... and actually i'm not so bad at chin ups (meaning supinated pullup), which is odd to me.stronglifts said:7 pullups with 60lbs weight is strong. Keep going. Your BOR is pretty weak compared to your other lifts. I've deadlifted 350lbs for 1RM with a BOR of 200lbs for 1RM.
It seems I'm an abnormality when it comes to the pull up. It could be that I've been working on it starting 7 years ago. Only started deadlift a year ago and proper BORS several monthes ago.mrRuckus said:I beat both of those and still can't pullup for crap... and actually i'm not so bad at chin ups (meaning supinated pullup), which is odd to me.
Spesmilitis,spesmilitis said:Whats the difference between a pendlay row and BOR? I think the p-row is the one your demonstrated in your video.
spesmilitis has given you good advice.mrRuckus said:I beat both of those and still can't pullup for crap... and actually i'm not so bad at chin ups (meaning supinated pullup), which is odd to me.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
As long as you stay away from failure, you'll be ok. These are just unloaded bodyweight exercises. Nothing to fear from.spesmilitis said:daily pull ups? What about time to recover?
Tight hamstrings. You should start stretching them. Here's a dynamic hamstring stretch: the leg swing. You can do it as warmup before starting your workout.kickureface said:whenever i do these rows, my hamstrings feel VERY tensed. by the end of the workout, im looking for the medicine ball to lie down, is this common or is it my specific problem? sometimes i feel like the hamstrings bog me down from the workout, making me not lift as much weight. bleh?
As soon as you give me more info about your problem. You can pm me if you prefer to keep it anonymous.mrRuckus said:So, stronglifts, when is your article about how to prevent gouging the cord into one's testicles during pullthroughs coming out?
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
I have the same issue. I feel this should be a public resolution.stronglifts said:As soon as you give me more info about your problem. You can pm me if you prefer to keep it anonymous.
I definitely need more info in that case. If two people have this problem, more will.Warboss Alex said:I have the same issue. I feel this should be a public resolution.
um, it was a joke.stronglifts said:I definitely need more info in that case. If two people have this problem, more will.
How do you like the ****y & funny attitude?Warboss Alex said:um, it was a joke.![]()
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