"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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How to Perform the Bent-Over Barbell

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mrRuckus said:
Well it started off as a joke though i did have the issue yesterday doing them for the first time...

i came home and looked at more videos of it being done and realized i wasn't doing them exactly right. I was more pulling the handle(rope) up to about shoulder height, which would make the cord go up into my groin, rather than leaving the rope down low like in this video:

http://www.midwestbarbell.com/videos/hampullthrough.wmv
-- i go further down and back than that though.

So i was turning the thing into an arm exercise at the end too...

Still kicked the sh1t out of my glutes and hamstrings, though... I'm really trying to do a lot of lower back, hamstring, hip builders lately to help with my squat and deadlift sticking points.
Lol, you were serious ;)

To tell you the truth, I don't have a pully machine in my home gym, so I couldn't really help you at this moment :D

But yeah it's a good exercise. Some other exercises that are good for the posterior chain:
* power cleans /snatch (i know)
* glute ham raises
* reverse hyperextensions
* romanian deadlifts
* etc

You already knew that of course, it can always help somebody else reading the topic.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Im surprised youre such a small guy for all your stronglifting you do.
 

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Charm said:
Im surprised youre such a small guy for all your stronglifting you do.
Just to show you that it's all about calories. I'm muscular, but if you don't eat more, you won't grow bigger.
 
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