"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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How to overcome fear and approach

pj115

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There's this girl in one of my college classes that really find attractive, yet I am unable to initiate conversation with her because I am the "shy type", does anyone know how I could overcome my fear and talk to her?

By shy I mean once she asked me for a spare pencil and I totally froze up and almost had an anxiety attack. Also, she is white and I am not so this may pose a problem if she is not interested in dating outside her race. I think of her every day even though there are other attractive girls on campus.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Trapper

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okay .. read the DJ Bible.. you could find lots of information about that...and forget the race okay.. its nothing to do with..
 
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