How to not give a fvck, and not jump into conclusions

[JdelaSilviera]

I will give two pieces of advice for those who still don´t know this, wich are very important and helpful to me.

First, you shouldn´t give a fvck about women, they are far from perfect... that hot chick you check in the middle of the beach, might have a huge birth mark in the middle of her ass... she is not that great. Also remember that even if you get into a relationship with her, you will realize that many things about her will get on your nerves, and that she will bore you to death... also that confident chick you thought she was...it isn´t all that.

Second, don´t jump into conclusions about whether a girl likes you that fast. I roll my eyes,every time I see a "next" advice with so little information given.

Remember that women are taught to be hard to get, they are told to rarely return phone calls, to cancel dates at last minute etc... just check "the rules" on wikipedia...
Many times the chick that takes hours (or days) to return you the phone call, is the one that is really interested in you.

 

[bilboteabaggins]

so when a broad flakes on me just one time I shouldn't tell her to fvck off? oops I thought I was the prize

 

[JdelaSilviera]

You may well tell her to fvck off, just keep in mind you could lose an interested girl.

There are no rules on this, so just use your commonsense. She could flake in order to make you want her more, because she find you the prize...

 

[Brownrice]

If a girl is interested in you, she will show it. If you think otherwise, you're lying to yourself. That's not a rule, it's human nature.

A small number of women do play hard to get but you can never tell for sure when a girl is playing hard to get, so it's dangerous territory and usually a waste of time. And even if you get a girl by chasing her, she won't respect you much so it's a lose-lose situation chasing these types of girls. If a girl is taking too long to respond to you, move onnnnnn. There are plenty out there who would be happier to be with you.

There are no real rules when it comes to women. The reason why so many guys on internet sites like this one are struggling is because they try to follow rules that some dude who are totally different from them set up.

The reason why some guys succeed with women after working with a dating coach has nothing to do with the coaching. It's all because he gained confidence to approach more women. The more girls you approach, the more action you will get. It's a numbers' game.


Just use your instincts and common sense.

 

[JdelaSilviera]

Well, I have to disagree.... many times I was baffled to know that some chick was into me, because it was not obvious at all! . Of course that girls that show interest are easy to spot...obvious.

But women are much more afraid of rejection, being seen as sluts etc...
So it´s not a matter of wishful thinking, if she flakes it still could be either way...

If a girl is interested in you, she will show it. If you think otherwise, you're lying to yourself. That's not a rule, it's human nature.



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