"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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How to not get clingy... the easy method...

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Jack-Torrance

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Okay, this is only if you are not going out with the girl! (Unless you want to be a cheater that is)


Okay here is a small scenario if you like...

You are totally attracted to one girl, you think that if the girl doesn't like you back, you will never find anyone like her. You feel such a strong want for them that you try extra hard to be around them and talk to them, and this builds and builds until you are, you guessed it... A CLINGER!


This is my way of preventing it and it is quite easy...

MEET OTHER WOMEN

If you want to meet hot girls go to nightclubs they are everywhere!
And the more girls you are going for, THE LESS YOU CARE ABOUT THEM INDIVIDUALLY!

THE LESS YOU CARE ABOUT THEM INDIVIDUALLY, THE LESS CLINGY YOU ARE!!!

Here is the new scenario...

You like all of the girls, if one doesn't like you, you will be bummed, but not much, because you have another group of hot girls who you can go for and you will easily forget her in less than a day because she matters a lot less!

See how this works? No more being a cling on if you can do this! (Unless you are truly in love, which in most cases, the person you are truly in love with will truly love you!)

Have fun!
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Exactly. Don't get involved with just one girl until you have already started dating. Keep your options open and try to meet as many girls as you can. That way if you meet one girl and she rejects you you can turn around and say "whatever" because you have other girls to turn to.

This goes for life in general, though. Do not just get involved with one group of friends, try and meet as many people as you can. In the real world it's called networking and by doing so you can assure yourself that you will always be able to find something to do, whether professionaly or for fun.

Plus, meeting new people at your school gives you instant social proof because you will be able to walk up and down the halls and be able to greet and talk to people the whole time. That makes you the alpha, not the beta.



Great post Jack-T... now it is just up to the kids to take advantage of it.
 
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you must be a rocket scientist to come up with such a solution...

bravo


:rolleyes:
 
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