"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
How To Not Come Off As Needy!
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
nooo freaakin wayyyy omg my life is just changed significantly thank you OPWolfgang D
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But you signed up in January 2008. After three years, that's the only tip anyone needs? You don't think any of the other advice here is right? What about the advice to get out more? I mean if a guy is sitting at home all the time, he's obviously not giving a f#$%.rea001 said:
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That's all you need... Learnt that little gem from my French grandmother, and boy does it work... BIG time !
All those attention seeking women cannot understand why you are not interested in them - what is wrong with this man, I am looking my best and he doesn't even batter an eyelid. The more you ignore them, the more they want to find why you are not validating them. Works every time.
They approach you - they open, they might ask if you are gay, but the are very interested in a man that is not needy at all.
Give it at try - it goes against anything you have been taught, but honestly how well are you doing with those daft chat up lines and approach techniques?
Let the women come to you...if they do, you know they are interested in you.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.