Yea i just need some mental tips of how to just not care if I dont get the hook up with someone or what one girl thinks about me. This has been a problem for me I care too much to try to make every girl like me and i let myself feel bad when one doesnt or doesnt talk to me so if anyone has any tips i can use mentaly on myself to not think like that it would help alot
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
How to NOT care
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