"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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How to NOT care

djweses89

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Yea i just need some mental tips of how to just not care if I dont get the hook up with someone or what one girl thinks about me. This has been a problem for me I care too much to try to make every girl like me and i let myself feel bad when one doesnt or doesnt talk to me so if anyone has any tips i can use mentaly on myself to not think like that it would help alot
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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JohnFox

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yeah thanks for the advice mr_elor, this kinda thing is a problem for some people. Just try to get your mind off of it, get out of your room, go in a room with your parents and watch some TV with them. Go out to the movies with your buds. See another girl you think is attractive and hit it off with her.

Its a lot easier than you initially think.
 
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