"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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How to not care what other people think when picking up?

Popeyes

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In a fairly crowded place. School, club, mall, whatever. How do you get over the mental block of if I fail I'll be ridiculed by those around me.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Evolution

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People really don't give a ****.

I said some crazy things, but that only makes her like me even more. Because I can withstand the social pressure.
 

LostAndConfused

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If people outside your pickup even consider ridiculing you, they obviously have nothing better going on in their useless, pathetic lives than to make fun of a guy who THEY DONT EVEN KNOW who gets rejected by a girl they probably don't know either.

Be rest assured that girls making fun of you have such dull lives that you should laugh at them for ridiculing you, and guys making fun have no balls anyways...they aren't sarging.
 

The Sperminator

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Dude I was at a grocery store in line picking up on a 2 chicks with everyone in line listening to me. It is kind of scary knowing that if you could be rejected in front of a ton of people but hey you got to be confident plus you never are going to see them again anyways.
 

LostAndConfused

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On a side note, we all know how the "jack@ss gets the girl," but have you ever considered why they were a jack@ss?

Just a thought, but it could be because EVERYONES watching their pickup so they have something ****y to say after they succeed that makes everyone think that they are, indeed, a jack@ss. They might not be jack@sses at all.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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