"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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How to not blow my chances

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I met a girl a few weeks ago and got majorly **** blocked by one of her friends. She called me a bunch of times after that, etc. So I texted her last week and we went back and forth for a while. Eventually we started talking about banging each other. Everything was cool. Then I texted her monday night and didn't hear from her. I figured she was busy cuz she usually texts/calls back a few mins later. I still haven't heard anything tho, so I'm kind of annoyed.

I'll see her again in 2 weeks (she lives cross country) and don't want to text again for fear of blowin my chances. I usually don't give a ****, but she is so hot and I must have her.

Should I just wait until I see her or try to get in contact with her again?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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no advice? i'll prob just call her later today and act like nothing happened
 

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See this is exactly how the push away effect works, look how frustrated it has got you and at the same time you desire her more than ever, it's a technique that if reversed would have women feeling the same way too :up:

for what you should do like you said, just act cool, have the attitude that you were so busy recently you forgot that you were even expecting a reply from her. etc..
 
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