"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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How to not blow my chances

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I met a girl a few weeks ago and got majorly **** blocked by one of her friends. She called me a bunch of times after that, etc. So I texted her last week and we went back and forth for a while. Eventually we started talking about banging each other. Everything was cool. Then I texted her monday night and didn't hear from her. I figured she was busy cuz she usually texts/calls back a few mins later. I still haven't heard anything tho, so I'm kind of annoyed.

I'll see her again in 2 weeks (she lives cross country) and don't want to text again for fear of blowin my chances. I usually don't give a ****, but she is so hot and I must have her.

Should I just wait until I see her or try to get in contact with her again?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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no advice? i'll prob just call her later today and act like nothing happened
 
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See this is exactly how the push away effect works, look how frustrated it has got you and at the same time you desire her more than ever, it's a technique that if reversed would have women feeling the same way too :up:

for what you should do like you said, just act cool, have the attitude that you were so busy recently you forgot that you were even expecting a reply from her. etc..
 
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