"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
How To NOT Be "Clingy" But Still Show Interest
- Thread starter PURE
- Start date
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
WatchMeWalk
Senior Don Juan
Ask her out on a date
KINO
Sparse compliments
It's ok to show interest, PERIOD. What you must do is keep her in the dark to the DEGREE of your interest. If it's higher than her's, and she knows it, she will flake. Guaranteed.
InLawsHateMe
Master Don Juan
How To NOT Be "Clingy" But Still Show Interest...
1. Talk for no longer than a few minutes on the phone.... the lesser, the better.... this is natural for me, I dislike phone conversations.
2. Make time for yourself. Your life does not revolve around her or anyone.
3. If you don't have anything to say, don't call her.
4. Don't be a hoe.... if she starts asking you to do things she can do herself obviously, tell her to get off her lazy ass and get it herself..... and while she's up, get you one too.
You can show your interest for her when you guys are around... when you guys are not, put her ass on the backburner, take care of your bidness during this time... should she call while you are busy, tell her 'Nice to hear from you but, I'm in the middle of trying to make my first million, let me call you back later.' Be a mystery.... is the key.
of course sometimes its hard to discipline yourself to give up rather than keep trying to show interest when she's clearly not interested, meaning you end up disobeying all those rules e.g. calling her too much, revealing too much about yourself and so on....
you just got to remember if you feel like you're going to have to break one of those rules (because otherwise you can't see her contacting you or whatever) then she's obviously not interested and you need to NEXT her... this is the mistake I've made alot and it has occasionally landed me in deep one-itis trouble...
InLawsHateMe
Master Don Juan
Very true.... good note to remember.
“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
In the beginning it's always good to have something fun that you plan to do and ask her if she'd like to join you (rather than simply asking her if she would like to do something). This shows that you're interested but you're going to go out and have fun either way.
That's all I've got for now.
Inlaws did a pretty good job.