how to Next?

[captain A]

Ok.
So I've gotten my game up to where I can handle a few girls at a time but I'm running into the situation where I sleep with a girl 3-4 times and then she just starts getting flakey. Honestly I think It's because I'm bad at building up rapport/connection and she's got other things than a simple lay to do......
I'll work on that. ....
My question is this: If a girl starts getting flakey, is it ok to just go ahead and unfriend her on f/b. lose the number and completely go n/c? Or is that weird? I see a lot of guys on here talking about unfriending and I've always thought that even taking the effort to unfriend is going too far out of your way but lately I've been kind of fed up and I went ahead and unfriended several girls who have flaked over the last several months simply because I don't care to see their sh*t show up in my news feed and we really have no reason to hang out again.

thoughts on this, please.

 

[GotED?]

Well, you need to figure out what is your desired outcome?

LTR relationships? Fookbuddy? Hump & dump?

Sounds like you don't give much of anything about these women, though you are complaining anyways.

Figure out what you want, and treat them accordingly.

Don't waste time with women that you don't want to be with for whatever purpose.

With respect,

Exodus

 

[Harry Wilmington]

The easiest way to handle this in the future, is to just not become friends with them on Facebook in the first place. Then you don't have to worry about unfriending them when it doesn't work out because you were never friends with them online in the first place. I don't ever befriend anyone online that I'm dating, and I tell them that early on or whenever it comes up - too many miscommunications can happen, and I'd rather have our communication take place on the phone or in person.