"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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How to next mutual friend

MacAvoy

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Hey guys, got a new dilemna here. I made the mistake of nailing a friend of a friend that I'm not attracted to at all. How can I let her down w/out coming across as an azz to our common friends. She lives upstairs from a good friend of mine and they have house parties w/ everyone in the apartment building.

I don't want to come across as the jerk who gets a feeding of poutang and is never heard from again. But I don't want to waste any more time w/ her either.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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coolguy676767

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Tell her straight up that you feel terrible, but you are confused in your life right now and it would be best if you didnt take it any further cause you are not looking for any kind of a relationship with her right now and its better if you came right out at the beginning and said it.
 
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