"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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How to never run out of supply

everywomanshero

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Ive been finding a lot online lately and I've been so busy going through them that I havent gotten out to look in person hardly at all. Now the online supply is getting thinner and rather than meet the same ones over and over I am switching back to bars/clubs tonight.

This pattern happens over and over. I look online and for a while it's a gold mine but while it never dries up I have to start looking harder and some of the ones I had to put off will be annoyed and a little spiteful that they were at the back of the waiting list (now I think it's best not to mesg them til you're in a position to meet them anyway), so what I've learned is when this happens to switch back to going out for 2-3 months and clean up at bars. By the time I get back to online game there will be a whole new crop on there. This is why all of you guys need to live major cities, it's great to have crowd after crowd of new people!! I might take some peeks around the mall too but in my old age I am starting just to prefer bars/clubs for some reason.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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COD

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online is a lil different than clubs or day gaming. Theres more than one net dating site you know.

lets take a look at some forums to meet women and how they differ.........

The very first step should be inner game, which begins with research. Next, some preparation and practice (have a plan).Now keep in mind when things are not going well be sure to have an out to save respect. If you ain’t feeling it or they have not given you sufficient indicators of interest or neglected to returned your banter time to move on. Avoid being over the top too. Sometimes being too aggressive too early on can work against you. Things like superficial posing in pictures, shirtless pictures, boasting/bragging, flaunting money, mentioning sex early on/often all can hinder your results. The old cliché` “playing hard to get” or active dis-interest is the way to go. Subtle persistence is the key to escalating to transition phase. There is a fine line between being a irritating and being enticing. Competition can be congested at times. It would serve in your best interest to acknowledge obstacles and keep it friendly. Having a wingman run interference for you may work in your favor, if you are flying solo you may have to resort to vibing with their mates for a few to gain their trust. I noticed that online communication is solidified by regularity. If you encounter some resistance like transitioning from the net to the phone or phone to a date odds are someone else has beat you to the finish line. Don’t get all hung up on the object of your desire as there is plenty of fish in the sea. Things do change though so keep them on the back burner and re-direct your attention to someone else.


bars n clubs you can use the direct approach with little resistance, day gaming requires a less threatening, more casual appraoch, online is more of a challenge requirement that borders on teasing.

All forums have basic foundations....peacocking, challenge, active dis-interest, negs, etc

for more details..........just click my link down below
 

MisterMcGee

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I've been gaming girls I used to know 6-7 years ago on facebook.
Its been very effective.

I think the whole effortless 'plant a seed' strat is good for long term stuff. I mean, if you consider a girl plate-worthy but have a lot on your hands or w.e, plant a seed there and leave her be for a while, pursue her when you feel like it.
 

Tha Realnezz

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There aint no way,every player ends up with no women on deck sooner or later...

Its actually good to go a couple months without pursuing women IMO..
 

everywomanshero

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Real,

I have not had a total drought in a couple of years now.

I think if you live in a metro area with at least a million people, then droughts are quite easily avoidable.

I stayed in a small town before and although at first things were super easy--Got online and nailed a bunch of locals, there was only two bars really worth anything but I found a little bit there, then I went to even smaller towns (Im talking villages here, like 2,000 people towns LOL) and jesus its so easy to pick up there. They pretty much picked me up they were so excited to find someone from out of town. Once this chick was in her car to take me home and another one of the small town chicks stopped me for something (forgot) and then started making out with me while the other chick was sittin there. Thought there was gonna be some drama but I still porked the one in the car and then porked the other the next weekend. Went to some kareoke bar and literally two chicks approached me with this great line "you're not from around here are ya". For me these village house parties/bars are the easiest pickings I've ever seen, but the problem is the supply is limited. Within a year I had ravaged every small town within driving distance. At the end of the day though I'm a city man, I just don't like living around pig **** and farmers, not to mention you have to drive 2 hours to find anything to eat or wear lol so biased I am

COD,

I look around different places online. I've found some really reliable ones, every 3 months it seems a new rotation is in. I didn't find myspace very time efficient though. Seemed like I was putting in more work for less result than with some of the other places I use. I used to have this program that mass msg'd on myspace and then I'd just sort through the returns later and cherry pick the ones to email, but it seems it doesn't work well now because of security codes you have to enter (too much trouble). I also havent tried hotornot in a couple of years now but I did meet a few people off that including some in South America too.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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