Interesting conjecture, but you don't really know the people involved, correct?
You're right that she hasn't been able to find another guy to treat her better. That's because I'm evolved, refined, possess social intelligence, fit, and have developed many other traits that women find universally attractive. For those reasons I think it does largely have to do with me personally. It's very easy to rise above the "competition" when you possess a bit of knowledge (as can be found here at SS).
I have no idea where you get the idea that she has limited options. She is stunning in the looks department, and has a refined, poised personality. What you probably can't relate to is our identical spiritual beliefs, which I've discussed earlier in another thread and which is a huge factor. I understand and accept that this is a non-issue for many, but it is of primary importance for us.
The human condition is such that for both men and women, we care to the degree that the other person makes us feel good. When a woman is given over to a man on a certain core level, there is little competition because it is the completely unique chemistry that binds her, along with (in our case) that crucial spiritual connection, which is as rare as can be.
I would maintain that the quality of a woman's character is directly proportional to her own requirements and expectations of a man, so in that regard it is true that she cannot find another guy to treat her better, to use your phrase. She recognizes that our chemistry is extremely rare, and therefore she values me and our relationship highly, which is of course our goal as men when it comes to relationships... to create a dynamic where she values us and the relationship highly. She behaves because she knows she has found a needle in a haystack, a man who scratches her where she itches.
We can't say, across the board, that ALL women are incapable of caring for a guy personally. However, we can say that the ones who are able to are ridiculously rare. I've tested this one intensely and put her through the ringer in order to precipitate my awareness of her real, core character, and she meets my expectations so far with flying colors.
All that to say, my entire point is that those of us who are looking for relationships should take heart, that there are a few scattered good ones out there. Naturally there are no guarantees with anything in life, but this woman meets my stringent requirements and that's good enough for me to simply enjoy her for however long we have.
