"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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How to mind phuck a girl!

FrankWank

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What are some tactics to mind phuck a girl. I've never tried it, but very interested in mind phucking a chick

suggestions?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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FrankWank said:
What are some tactics to mind phuck a girl. I've never tried it, but very interested in mind phucking a chick

suggestions?
Watch Silence of the Lambs. Hannibal knows how to **** someone's mind up, it's a psychological thriller anyways. You will see good examples of characters getting surprised or shocked by others. Be bold and always play into someones weaknesses to get what you want. But be sure you only do this to people you don't plan to be friends with.
 

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Hannibal may have been a good mindphucker, but he used it for the wrong purposes.
Doing this requires a lot of knowledge about the way the mind works. To know how the mind works, just read a lot of NLP, follow courses about human behaviour, etc.
Then, to me, a mind phuck basically just means you have to get into a suggestive state of mind. You say things that are completely outside of the conversation, that enter their mind in such a way that it will be impossible for them to ignore.
An example: "I bet you're one of those girls that never gets horny and tries to jump my bones" ... This sentence will do several things. First of all, the words 'not' and the word 'don't' are words that are interpreted on a lower level than the other words in the sentence. The words she hears are 'girls', 'horny' and 'jump my bones'. This makes her wonder about being horny and jumping your bones. She will think about it, and that means she is putting her attention and energy to those words. Do enough of this stuff, and the girl will fall for you head over heels.
 

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I-am-someone said:
Hannibal may have been a good mindphucker, but he used it for the wrong purposes.
Doing this requires a lot of knowledge about the way the mind works. To know how the mind works, just read a lot of NLP, follow courses about human behaviour, etc.
Then, to me, a mind phuck basically just means you have to get into a suggestive state of mind. You say things that are completely outside of the conversation, that enter their mind in such a way that it will be impossible for them to ignore.
An example: "I bet you're one of those girls that never gets horny and tries to jump my bones" ... This sentence will do several things. First of all, the words 'not' and the word 'don't' are words that are interpreted on a lower level than the other words in the sentence. The words she hears are 'girls', 'horny' and 'jump my bones'. This makes her wonder about being horny and jumping your bones. She will think about it, and that means she is putting her attention and energy to those words. Do enough of this stuff, and the girl will fall for you head over heels.
Are you sure she just doesn't think you're an idiot? I find just using some basic kino works fine.
 
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