"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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How to meet hot girls?

JdelaSilviera

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Most of my friends who are mid twenties, seem to have "given up" from an exciting life. The programs are always the same, they go to the same places, same people, don´t meet no one new. No wonder why people get depressed, routine is depressing.

So, what tips can you give me? New friends? New hobbies? Feel free to help me.

Thanks
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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playa99

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I've encountered the same problem recently... I changed my playground and changed my playmates, I went out with different people to different places and got talking to more people!

Go out, be friendly wherever you are and you won't go far wrong as long as you know what you want!
 

1-800-HellNo

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seriously.
where the hell the hot girls at?

i have the best luck getting girls at concerts and the mall.
but girls at the mall in my town are 80% awful.
so i go to other malls haha

but then i end up too far from home thinking how inconvenient it will be to meet up with them.
 
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