I'm going to try to be a big man on campus here at sosuave and make a foundation post or what ever you call it. A post to build your game off of. Obviously check out all the game resources this site showcases but here we go.
Best way to meet girls is approaching. Most of you have it in you to approach and it get's easier the more you do it so do it. Online is risky in that it's often a wast of time and ****ty selection of girls. Focus on online dating also works as a buffer to stop you from doing approaches. So get out there and make approaches.
The best place to make approaches is anywhere you have access to cute girls you find attractive. For me that means when I'm out doing things at stores. I also go out of my way to check out bookstores or hell even walk around the college campus from time to time I mean it's like a bird feeder for young hot chicks... and in case you didn't notice from my profile info I'm 30. Also if you can bare it finding a good club atmosphere that works as a bird feeder for hot chicks is also good to stop by weekly or what ever. It gets easier the more you approach.
Which brings me to my first important mindset. Enjoy young attractive women. Don't get some BS in your head that older women are better or more mature they're not, wish they were I'd gladly trade some good looks for a mythical unicorn but it doesn't exist so never value older age in and of itself and yes value younger college aged girls don't subtract or penalize them for being young. It's a bad mindset.
Next mindset tip don't let this feminist western cancer cultural marxism BS stop you from meeting women. Many feminists even with their ****ty annoying rhetoric are often quite feminine and quite submissive and fun to be around. The anti feminist might not spout misogyny and lets face it most feminists aren't rad fems... but even if she's anti feminist she probably believes in equality BS. Save your politics for politics, women don't have much logic when it comes to this arena and you're building up this crazy barrier looking for unicorns that don't exist. My advice don't get married to any girls even a virgin who loves manly dominant men because this society is working against you as a man the way to change that is in politics not game or who you date. Your biggest power is the ability to walk away which means not cohabitating or getting married or having children and spinning plates. If you want to have children go ahead but understand you probably won't have custody for long unless you play the ***** role well cause all the power is in her hands. Anyways the point is don't think about all this stuff when it comes to getting laid politics should be as separate as quantum physics is to getting laid atleast the topic haha.
You must never get oneitus. Never! If you have a girl and things are going great well enjoy it well it lasts because the honeymoon will end probably around 6 months if you're lucky. Doesn't mean you have to dump her but you need options at a minimum which means spinning plates. Options doesn't mean you're dating and sleeping with other girls but that would be best.
Analyzing and reading game is great if it helps you improve but the basics are always approach, always escalate, be selfish and make sure you're enjoying things and don't seek her approval or make that the basis of the relationship. Obviously for game reasons you want the sex to be good for her but you're failing some big **** tests if you turn yourself into a human dildo.
Lots of material on approaching, always escalating, and being selfish. Some blogs I'd like to recommend are the rational male and chateau heartiste. If you see women as unattainable or better than you time to take that ***** off the pedestal and make it happen.
Have fun guys, have fun with this. We can come back here and anonymously encourage each other through our many rejections and successes. Tell great stories of flawless game and epic blunders lol. It's all good as long as we're giving it a good try. Let's all motivate each other because that's the real fun of a forum like this.
Best way to meet girls is approaching. Most of you have it in you to approach and it get's easier the more you do it so do it. Online is risky in that it's often a wast of time and ****ty selection of girls. Focus on online dating also works as a buffer to stop you from doing approaches. So get out there and make approaches.
The best place to make approaches is anywhere you have access to cute girls you find attractive. For me that means when I'm out doing things at stores. I also go out of my way to check out bookstores or hell even walk around the college campus from time to time I mean it's like a bird feeder for young hot chicks... and in case you didn't notice from my profile info I'm 30. Also if you can bare it finding a good club atmosphere that works as a bird feeder for hot chicks is also good to stop by weekly or what ever. It gets easier the more you approach.
Which brings me to my first important mindset. Enjoy young attractive women. Don't get some BS in your head that older women are better or more mature they're not, wish they were I'd gladly trade some good looks for a mythical unicorn but it doesn't exist so never value older age in and of itself and yes value younger college aged girls don't subtract or penalize them for being young. It's a bad mindset.
Next mindset tip don't let this feminist western cancer cultural marxism BS stop you from meeting women. Many feminists even with their ****ty annoying rhetoric are often quite feminine and quite submissive and fun to be around. The anti feminist might not spout misogyny and lets face it most feminists aren't rad fems... but even if she's anti feminist she probably believes in equality BS. Save your politics for politics, women don't have much logic when it comes to this arena and you're building up this crazy barrier looking for unicorns that don't exist. My advice don't get married to any girls even a virgin who loves manly dominant men because this society is working against you as a man the way to change that is in politics not game or who you date. Your biggest power is the ability to walk away which means not cohabitating or getting married or having children and spinning plates. If you want to have children go ahead but understand you probably won't have custody for long unless you play the ***** role well cause all the power is in her hands. Anyways the point is don't think about all this stuff when it comes to getting laid politics should be as separate as quantum physics is to getting laid atleast the topic haha.
You must never get oneitus. Never! If you have a girl and things are going great well enjoy it well it lasts because the honeymoon will end probably around 6 months if you're lucky. Doesn't mean you have to dump her but you need options at a minimum which means spinning plates. Options doesn't mean you're dating and sleeping with other girls but that would be best.
Analyzing and reading game is great if it helps you improve but the basics are always approach, always escalate, be selfish and make sure you're enjoying things and don't seek her approval or make that the basis of the relationship. Obviously for game reasons you want the sex to be good for her but you're failing some big **** tests if you turn yourself into a human dildo.
Lots of material on approaching, always escalating, and being selfish. Some blogs I'd like to recommend are the rational male and chateau heartiste. If you see women as unattainable or better than you time to take that ***** off the pedestal and make it happen.
Have fun guys, have fun with this. We can come back here and anonymously encourage each other through our many rejections and successes. Tell great stories of flawless game and epic blunders lol. It's all good as long as we're giving it a good try. Let's all motivate each other because that's the real fun of a forum like this.
