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How to manipulate people/negotiate

Desert Fox

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Any negotiators out there? People who have to constantly work to manipulate others or seal a business deal? Anyone understand the human psyche and how it works?

I wanna learn.

Post tips/books/etc you think will help.

Much thanks.
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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well, as soon as i feel like somebody's trying to manipulate ME to do or buy something then it's instantly bye-bye. but if you want to do it more humanly then check out this guy: geoff burch and his 'resistance is useless'
 

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just love it. his first thing is well balanced respect - towards his clients, (co)workers and himself. and humor of course, things are not so serious. but he stings also when it's necessary. that's why i listen to this man. btw he's called the world of business' bad boy.
me personally am not a selling person in a classical sense but it was fun to read and applicable also.
as i think about manipulation - yes, i'd like to persuade anyone to anything but would i like it if somebody's doing this to me? nope.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Just so happens i am in the sales line, any sales book is good. Here i listed down some of my fav. I will give a brief explanation each one of them, you can choose who you like or based on what you need.


The psychology of persuasion by Kevin Hogan

This book is my recomended book for all my friends, why? Because it teaches you from the basic till the most advance technique . It makes you understand the whole cycle, from how do human thinks and how to use these infomation to your benefit. This book is also recommended to all DJ from NEWBIE to MASTER!!!

Selling yourself to others by kevin Hogan and William Horton
This book will add more infomation from his previous book, nothing much is new, but you add more depth in your new found knowledge.

Talk your way to the top by Kevin Hogan
Not too many new things to learn, just more hands on approach plus the excersize is a very good way to improve your talking skills. Plus it helps me alot about talking to chic with these books.

Covert Persuasion by Kevin Hogan
If you do not get his 2 or 3 book, it ok, this books cover it all from 1 till 3 plus more easy to use and more important, it has a great final chaptor to teach you how to use all the knowledge you learn so far in a situation. You need the first one though, if you planning to get his book, i personally will like you to get his first one, then go for this one. It will gives you more in depth knowledge on how human psychology works. This one is like a sequel to book 1.

You can read anyone by David J. Lieberman
This book is so cool, want to know when a lady is testing you, lie to you, show you the signal? Well this book my friend is what ALL DJ should read. I never got his first book "NEVER TO BE LIED AGAIN", but this one is good enough. This book helps alot, plus it so EASY to use his method. If you read the psychology of persuasion, these 2 books combine, you will freak the ladies out because you can almost read their mind.

Get anyone to do anything by David J. Lieberman
This is also a cool book, different than the first one, this one get the other party to do your bidding, again if you have read the psychology of persuasion, these 2 books combine, the other person wont even know that your manupulate them.

Is that your hand in my pocket by Tom Lambert and Tom Parker
This is book is more on business settings, very good book to supplement on what you already learn, and teaches you new things as well. I definatly recommend this book, if you are in sales, this book is great.

Sell your way through Life by Napolean Hill
This is a classic. The fundamentals on selling, if you are in sales, you must have one copy. Fundamentals dont change, technique will. Get your basic right and all is well, if you are not in sales still i recommend. Fundamentals dont change, technique will. This old school style dont teach you to flatter your way through life, in fact this books condems it, plus you get to see old school dj style in business settings.

The Sales Bible by Jeffery Gitomer
If you are in sales then this a great one to have, simple and easy to use. No nonsense bull****, in your face attitude.

Ok, i have many more but i wont list them all, i guess this is a good way to start, plus you can still check out Zig Zigler And Brian Tracy, these also my favourite author, why i did not included, their method is way out of style plus the fundamentals are also taught the books i mention above, so no need to repeat, unless you a book colector like me.Also any book about NLP are great, i dont get it cause Kevin Hogan already cover that part, but if you need more info about NLP you can always get one. They are great anyway.

P/S All the technique about manupulationg ladies in these forum works on men as well, just minus out the romance part your good to go. Plus after reading all the kevin Hogan books, you can understand WHY it works, HOW it works. On this part i am not jk. The exact science of kino is explain in his first book, you get the whole picture, whatever technique is use here, it all cover in his first book.

On a final note here, like all the technique we learn here, it can use for good or evil. Choice is yours, just like gravity, we manipulata gravity to fly a plane it destination or you fly a nuclear missile, which is it? The choice is yours. With that, be more concious how you want to manipulate a situation. I believe in a win - win situation, with these skill you certainly can develop you win - he lose situation. Again choice is yours, i just provide a way.
 

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I beg to differ, this is why.

yes, i'd like to persuade anyone to anything but would i like it if somebody's doing this to me? nope.
Everybody is manipulating/persuading everyone, this is a TRUE FACT. It is a necessity in life. For example, when an infant wants to eat/shat/discomfort or whatever he needs, it cries to get attention thus to " manipulate" the mommy/daddy
to feed/or whatever needs done to him. It is for survival. Isnt that a form of manipulation?

Why all the lady lay out those test? to manipualte men of course. you either jump through them or find a way to get around them. If you do either, arent you being manipulated? Even she dont know you turn it around, arent you being manipulated to get what she ultimate wants? A MAN. Think about that for a sec?

If you look around in the whole world today,media/society/or whatever is persuading you to buy their brand over others, you yourself also have a personal fav brand of clothing,shoes etc etc. So do you hate the company into manipulating you to buy their produuct?

Sorry, i am not here preach, i just want you to understand there a proper way to go about it, and a not so proper way. Plus you cant hate the game, it you got manipulate, you just been out manuverd, dont hate the game, hate the player.

Once you understand this, you will notice how to effective persuade anyone to do anything on a 70% basis, and also how to spot a insincere bastard try to pull out a fast one.

Persuasion is a way of life, you either get good at it or you dont, your choice. DJ are leaders, and leaders persuade people to do their bidding,they also are good followers, it a cycle. You can be lead and be led at the same time, once you understand, life wont be a struggle anymore.

p/s this is not a personal attack on you mcs. Just thought i want to share with you my insight on this paticular topic.
 

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"All conversation is persuasion"
 

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sinjester...very true

kwothe and mcs thanks for the reccs guys.
 

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Your welcome. Anyway those technique is pretty much the same what we use here. Just more general in the sense that is both male and female, and more detail plus it explain what you do in a detail way.
 

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"How to Win Friends & Influence People" by Dale Carnegie. It has been around for 70+ years for good reason.
 

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seagull said:
"How to Win Friends & Influence People" by Dale Carnegie. It has been around for 70+ years for good reason.
Agreed. I started to apply some of the concepts in this book. Its amazing how fast doors can open for you.

It also helps to have good body language, and a calm voice, to be congruent with what you are speaking.
 
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