"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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How to manage debt while working a full time job?

Create Reality

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In your opinions, experience, and knowledge... If you work a full time job which pays you by the hour, how should you limit your CREDIT spending in relation to your income and expenses? I think having at least 5 months expenses and credit payment immediately available is a good idea. But what do you think of how much credit should be used in relation to income after expenses? Many thanks.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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As little as possible or perhaps none at all would be my answer
 

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No credit is best.

If you have 5 months of income and expenses, take away from that what you own to get a real number of months of income and expenses.

Credit is good if you using it to make money. You should be doing things on the side to make money.
 

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No debt for disposables (gas, food, movies, etc). All other non-major debt should be paid off within a year. Long term debt (car, mortgage, student loans) should be at a single digit interest rate.
 

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I'm working out my finances and seeing how far I can extend my spending using credit. It's hard work! I will have to write myself a little computer app to make things faster :D
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Create Reality said:
I'm working out my finances and seeing how far I can extend my spending using credit. It's hard work! I will have to write myself a little computer app to make things faster :D
no need, just use excel.
keep in mind, that no debt isn't good eather. If your a young guy, and you try bying a house, or a car, and you have no credit rating you'll be very limited on what you can get.

If you don't have any other debt, charge something to your credit card, once a month, and pay it off the minute you get the bill.
If you have too much debth, pay off the one with the heighest interast, unless there is one bill that is considerbly smaller, in which case pay that off fist.
For example; lets say you have;
bill 1) 12000 @ 18%,
bill 2) 12000 @ 8%
bill 3) 5000 @ 8%
In this case what you would do is pay minimum on fist and second bill and rest of available money on the third. Once you paid off the third bill, pay minimum on second bill, and the rest on the first bill (which would be the minimum that you ware paying on that bill, plus the money you would have been paying for the third bill that you alredy payed off).......untill you pay all of them off.
 
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