"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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How to manage a married woman?

romanticman

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All judgements aside. I have a hot married woman interested in me and I need some advice .
I met her a few days ago and she gave me her phone number email. She said we could meet up ...
Now I am wondering has anyone found that married women are on a much more tighter schedule and require more patience? The week her kids are home from school so a meet is not possible so I suggested a meet next week via email but no reply. Should I keep silent for now and let her make the next move? I dont want to be needy or come of as a *****. I should wait for her without sending another mail?
Secondly how hard is it to meet a married girlfriend?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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AAAgent

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not advising you to go after married women but if you do know this.

The women are married man, why would they go after you? She will try to give you as many opportunity's as possible which is looks, number, emails, clothing, etc. Taken advantage of those signs and make moves. Dinner, kino, etc.

The reason she's open is probably because she lacking things in her marriage. Find out what those things are and give them to her. Like attention, spontaneity, creativity, etc. not physical things like money and gifts.

best to stay away from these unless you want to be a homewrecker or want trouble.
 

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I know its dangerous but if a woman is looking isnt it better us than someone else? Thats what I am thinking.
 

romanticman

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Ive got her email and phone number...good start..so now to move on with it.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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SharinganUser

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Secondly how hard is it to meet a married girlfriend?

A married gf?:crackup: :crackup: :crackup: :crackup: :crackup: :crackup: :crackup:

If she is married, she's not your girlfriend. :crackup: :crackup: :crackup:
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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TheManOfSteel

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SharinganUser said:
A married gf?:crackup: :crackup: :crackup: :crackup: :crackup: :crackup: :crackup:

If she is married, she's not your girlfriend. :crackup: :crackup: :crackup:
My thoughts the second I finished reading this post. I actually laughed out loud when reading that.

As per the post, I'd say you're asking for trouble. Plenty of single women out there to lay.
 

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I'd personally take her off his hands and marry her. then you can get to manage the wh0re.

Are you serious? The only time she'll have time for you is between husband and kids. You'll be 3rd or 4th on her list of things to do. If you make plans,she'll have to cancell when the kids are sick,the husband comes home early,etc.etc. Then, chances are GOOD you'll be getting sloppy seconds from the night before[she's going to put out MORE with him to allay his suspicions]

Karma will bite you on the azz on this one. I'd avoid it at all costs
 

SoldMySoul

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sodbuster said:
I'd personally take her off his hands and marry her. then you can get to manage the wh0re.

Are you serious? The only time she'll have time for you is between husband and kids. You'll be 3rd or 4th on her list of things to do. If you make plans,she'll have to cancell when the kids are sick,the husband comes home early,etc.etc. Then, chances are GOOD you'll be getting sloppy seconds from the night before[she's going to put out MORE with him to allay his suspicions]

Karma will bite you on the azz on this one. I'd avoid it at all costs
Sounds like a man that knows from experience right there and spot on!! I sure know about it and Sod is dead on.

OP, if you do it and develop feelings, you can start enough post titled: How to manage thoughts in your head? Because you will have a load of garbage from doing so.
 

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Girlfriend was a stupid choice of words...better call her f uck buddy.I have flinched with guilt from your posts but it depends on what the man downstairs says.. See who wins..my conscience or ....
It may be bad karma but I have a problem walking away from an attractive woman who needs sex
 

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Meh call date dump son. If she's coming on to you then be the man and nail her and let her deal with any issues, you do have other plates spinning right ?

Just don't be a fool and think you can "steal" or "rescue" her from her failing marriage or lifestyle okay.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Kailex

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maqnetik said:
how do you "manage" her?

you dont-- shes somebody elses problem.

:nervous:
I was going to say something simiar.

You don't manage her, she manages you. You are at her whim since she is married. Enjoy.
 

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Make sure to update us after her husband introduces himself, she gets her divorce and the children are devastated.
 

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if she wants to cheat its HER choice.

your not to blame for her decision, even if sh1t does come your way for doing it, just make sure you know you might have an insane husband trash your car or go medieval on you.

I would have gone for the text myself though rather than email as contact.

normally id phone but if shes with the husband that could be errrr awkward. you'd need to pretend to be selling windows or something if he answered ha.
 

joe henny

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married women just want one thing an AFFAIR fvck her and move on
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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